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Help a fellow Fapstronaut out

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Fallacious D, Jan 25, 2020.

  1. Guys, I've come to the conclusion that I might be lonely.

    Well luckily, there happens to be this girl in one of my classes that is probably into me. I catch her looking at me all the time. I have made up my mind that I'm going to ask her out the next time I see her.

    Since I stopped fapping I haven't been nearly as nervous about these things, and in fact I just recently asked out another one of my crushes and wasn't even slightly uneasy (got R'd.) But I've been bad lately so the annoying anxiety is back.

    Could you guys try to hype me up or something? Thanks.
     
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  2. oromis

    oromis Fapstronaut

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    What makes you conclude you're lonely?

    Also congrats on making the move on a girl!
     
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  3. dogeatdog

    dogeatdog Fapstronaut

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    Making a move on a girl is no easy task, dog. Most dudes are too afraid and comfortable to take part in NoFap but you're different. You also have a very funny name and she will definitely find that attractive. Good luck!
     
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  4. @oromis I don't feel lonely but I think that I might be subconsciously blocking that feeling out, because I've been alone most of my life and I'm really good at coping with it. But sometimes I see other people talking and being in groups and I kind of wish I was a part of it.

    @dogeatdog I think I've lost my fapstronaut energy but I'll definitely get it back. Also, FellatiousD isn't my real name but I get what you're saying.
     
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  5. dogeatdog

    dogeatdog Fapstronaut

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    Isn't in a play on words on Tenacious D? It would be quite unfortunate if your first name was Fellatious lmao
     
  6. Yeah it's Fellatio + Tenacious D.
     
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  7. oromis

    oromis Fapstronaut

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    I feel ya. Life has been like that for me as well. In the past I did try hard to be part of a larger group but eventually gave up chasing people. Funnily enough, over the years I've met more and more like minded people and all I can say is that those who want to stay do end up staying. As long as you look on the inside and keep trying to better yourself , I assure you that you'll eventually come across your own tribe.
     
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  8. Bro. Is not that big of a deal.
    Just do it. So she can reject you and all of us can go one with our life.

    Just define the situation. Dont linger in that grey undifined area, that sucks.
    Go show the lamb your fangs, and if the lamb do not go away, you can eat it
     
  9. Fair enough. Getting re-addicted to porn really strips your confidence away. But I agree that no one really cares and it won't matter if I get rejected. In fact I always tell people the same advice - the worst she can do is say "no thanks".
     
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  10. Yes, dude. Take it easy.
    Have fun. Let it naturally happen, dont force things.

    You didnt know the girl anyway. Maybe that you will not like her that much when you know her morr. She could be a crazy ass lunatic or a thief, you got to talk to her to find out.

    And dont take it personal if she rejects you, she doesnt know you at all. There could be billons of reasons that have nothing to do with you.
     

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