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Panic mode: Getting married in 80 days

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by freedfromshackles, Feb 6, 2020.

  1. Feb 6, 2020 #1
    freedfromshackles

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    As the title. Been in and out with porn and averaging about 3-4 a week with a not so tight grip. But maybe past week or two, my morning wood is not happening, or when it does, it's not that strong.

    Also, when I was with my woman making out (just making out and nothing else) I noticed I had an erection so after our session, I went to the toilet to check it out - it wasn't full size and it was "hard flaccid" as it it's erect but a bit bendy. Am I screwed? I'm marrying her soon and I don't want to have weak erections or failing to stay and maintain my erections.

    Is this because of my porn use and do I have hope to turn this wreck around? And what's the best "programme", excercises and things I need to do to make sure this doesn't mess up my honeymoon?
     
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    freedfromshackles, Feb 6, 2020
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  2. Feb 6, 2020 #2
    recoome

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    dont fap and give ur dick a break. not fapping or seeing porn or fantasizing helps me.
     
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  3. Feb 6, 2020 #3
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    I think the worst thing you can do is worry too much. You are overthinking a bit. Most likely this plays a part too.
     
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  4. Feb 6, 2020 #4
    RestlessEngineer

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    Don't stress it mate, just do an almost full reboot for 80 days and you will be fine on your honeymoon.
    Congratulations on the wedding and good luck on your journey
     
    RestlessEngineer, Feb 6, 2020
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  5. Feb 7, 2020 #5
    freedfromshackles

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    Thank you. Is it possible to do a full reboot and rewire my brain to get hard normally with a woman in 80 days? What is a full reboot and where do I read about that and how do I achieve it?

    Also, how do I check the level of my porn addiction? I used to normally jack off about 3-5 times a week.
     
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  6. Feb 7, 2020 #6
    Kligor

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    Hi buddy,stay away from porn,masturbation,fantasies and any type of stimulation.If you follow that in next 80 days you will be much better.Don't worry,worrying can't help situation,for most people reboot is 90 days i think it takes more time,but everyone is different,good luck.
     
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  7. Feb 7, 2020 #7
    RestlessEngineer

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    A full reboot is basically staying away from pmo all together for 80 days, yes i think that 80 days no pmo and then keeping the no pm streak going while you can have sex with the wife will be enough.
    You can read about reboots almost everywhere on nofap most people have journals about it.
    And you should not check the level of your porn addiction just stay away from it forever if you can, don't give in or it will suck you right back in and you will be back at day 0
     
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  8. Feb 7, 2020 #8
    freedfromshackles

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    Thanks. I think it's about 1 week since I stopped PMO. My morning wood isn't happening every day and when it does, it's not maximum strength. When will I start noticing more frequent and stronger morning wood?
     
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  9. Feb 7, 2020 #9
    White_umbrella

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    We listen here sometimes persons in my country say:
    A woman never leaving me unsatisfy if one man have tongue and hands. :) So relax...
    This can be good remember if some day you are not in the mood and that it may happen to anyone, one day tired of work or something else, i dont know..., perhaps not everydays is mood day so you have one good alternative if some day happen you not in the mood.

    If you have one erection only for making out your litle thing looks good... and work well...
    This is probablly porn subconscious condition in your brain, that means it looks like you’re watching to many porn...
    You have 80 days to do one no pmo, just do it... it will probablly not be very easy but you will be worth it
    80 days no pmo, not a simple orgasm... wowwwww... poor girl you will be like one animal...
    You will be fine relax... just do the no pmo it will help a lot.
    And get away of porn you have your girl now you dont need that...
    And one relationship is not only sex...
    And congratulations all good.
     
    White_umbrella, Feb 7, 2020
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  10. Feb 8, 2020 #10
    freedfromshackles

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    Thanks man. Really appreciate. And about the erection, we just made out again the other day and I immediately went to the bathroom to check my member to see its not fully erect and a little bit bendy. Is it normal not to have a full erection when making out? Or is it because I'm so used to making out with her that my body doesn't find it "exciting" anymore?
     
    freedfromshackles, Feb 8, 2020
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