Racial fetishes!

Rohanrecovery · Feb 24, 2020

I am a medeterranean looking/light brown man. People guess me as anything from Near East (ie Turk, Jordanian), Iranian, Greek/Italian or Castizo (75% European) Hispanic.

Basically a racially bland looking guy who doesn't feel like he fits in anywhere, or that anyone finds me interesting.

As such, my fetishes of things I watch have been where women are basically worshipping a white or black guy for being who he is.

Part of me wishes I could stand out as much and be as striking as a tall, muscular, well endowed white or black guy (I am 5'8).

Some of the stuff I watch has been very degrading to the woman, and I imagine myself in that position where, because the woman loves me for my race, I can do whatever I want.

It's pretty fucked up.

I think this masks deeper issues that I need to deal with about seeing the beauty and value in my individual race. Yes, I am not black or white, but my culture and identity is interesting. I need to get in touch with that unique nature of being a man of my ethnicity, and explore/appreciate it.

Really the racial fetishes are disgusting, and it makes me not able to connect with anyone (Male or female), as I am either in a mindset of lust or jealousy.

White_umbrella · Feb 24, 2020

I think everyone must enjoy and have proud the race they belong, white, asian, black, etc... no one shoud be shame of your own race, every race are beautiful, we are equals because we are all humans and everyone is one diferent human being at the same time.
It's normal for people to have certain stronger preferences sometimes, like enjoy and appreciate womans with black hair or blonde but the what is important is you fell good with with person you are with, be her blond, black, white, asian... whatever...
About this fetich i belive you enjoy bdsm and i think inside this world there is one very fragile line very easy to break and to lose the consciousness of what can be good and bad and that can lead to not very good things in my view.
Like... you can give some small and good funny ass spanks and but if you do have a fetich this very fragile line that can be broke to violence and abuse and many times without you note or have full consciusness because your brain is condition to the fetich so you focus your mind in your fetich and to have sexual pleasure and not in the love of the person that you have and this must be the opposite you must to focus in first love and put love in everything you do.
So... this like the same thing like you do hard only sex fetich spanks that turn to sexual pleasure in violence and abuse or you can do this stuff like 50 shades of grey style even if you make it a little stronger hard spanks.
So what is the difference?! the differrence is "love" yes... "love"
You do one good no pmo reboot your brain from all this porn that comes in to your mind over the time and learn to develop first one relation with love then if the persons or couple fell good and is nathing bad and is sane and consensual... and bouth enjoy spanks well you guys know what do you want...
I know very well we are not talking only about spanks is just one exemple. I am not sure if I managed to express the idea very well but I think you could understand a little where I want to get.
Maby you have some inferiority complex and something in the midle that have to do with race and you develope one fetich where do you see yourself and someone from other race worship you to compensate that lack but that I think only you can only really analyze. What do you think?!
A good no pmo will help you to develop and focus your mind first in love and one good relation and that what is real important and not the fetichs.
So what are your opinions about all this?

Rohanrecovery · Feb 24, 2020

Thank you so much for this long and detailed reply man!

You are hundred percent right. I think BDSM is something I would like to explore, especially as I get older (I am 31 now). But as you said, if I am lost in a haze or lust from PMO I will not be able to be controlled and have self discipline.

I need to become a man of strength and discipline, only then will I be able to be the type of man that a woman would trust with this.

I think I need to abstain from PMO and focus on growing myself spiritually, then I could become the type of man that could do this in a good way for women.

And yes I think worrying about race too much is stupid- we all have strengths we can develop

White_umbrella said: ↑

I think everyone must enjoy and have proud the race they belong, white, asian, black, etc... no one shoud be shame of your own race, every race are beautiful, we are equals because we are all humans and everyone is one diferent human being at the same time.
It's normal for people to have certain stronger preferences sometimes, like enjoy and appreciate womans with black hair or blonde but the what is important is you fell good with with person you are with, be her blond, black, white, asian... whatever...
About this fetich i belive you enjoy bdsm and i think inside this world there is one very fragile line very easy to break and to lose the consciousness of what can be good and bad and that can lead to not very good things in my view.
Like... you can give some small and good funny ass spanks and but if you do have a fetich this very fragile line that can be broke to violence and abuse and many times without you note or have full consciusness because your brain is condition to the fetich so you focus your mind in your fetich and to have sexual pleasure and not in the love of the person that you have and this must be the opposite you must to focus in first love and put love in everything you do.
So... this like the same thing like you do hard only sex fetich spanks that turn to sexual pleasure in violence and abuse or you can do this stuff like 50 shades of grey style even if you make it a little stronger hard spanks.
So what is the difference?! the differrence is "love" yes... "love"
You do one good no pmo reboot your brain from all this porn that comes in to your mind over the time and learn to develop first one relation with love then if the persons or couple fell good and is nathing bad and is sane and consensual... and bouth enjoy spanks well you guys know what do you want...
I know very well we are not talking only about spanks is just one exemple. I am not sure if I managed to express the idea very well but I think you could understand a little where I want to get.
Maby you have some inferiority complex and something in the midle that have to do with race and you develope one fetich where do you see yourself and someone from other race worship you to compensate that lack but that I think only you can only really analyze. What do you think?!
A good no pmo will help you to develop and focus your mind first in love and one good relation and that what is real important and not the fetichs.
So what are your opinions about all this?
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