Does it get easier ? Looking toward those long term Fapstronauts

T-1000 · Mar 13, 2020

Looking toward those who have been on NoFap for extensive periods of time, I have been masturbating pretty much daily, since I was a teenager. In the past few years, since my depression and anxiety has got worse and I am living alone, it has gone up to 2-3 times a week, sometimes even more and my pornography use has gone up the charts.

My most recent NoFap attempt was around 15 days or so and it all stemmed from a one night stand where I couldn't get it up, she promptly left, it was embarrassing....I was so depressed and down about it I simply didn't want to masturbate..I couldn't work out if it was the alcohol, my depression, stress etc. I currently have three days under my belt, I plan on doing it for at least a fortnight. My goal is to get to a stage where I have no longer any desire or interest to watch porn, I hope this will increase my desire and motivation to find a partner and overall improve my life balance. I am hoping if I'm no longer watching porn, I will be masturbating far less than what I am now and ideally, would like to limit it to maybe a few times a month.

In all honesty and as much as I'd like to, I don't know if I could ever permanently incorporate NoFap into my life, I believe pornography for the majority of men is damaging but I still think the verdict is out on NoFap, I think if you can moderate it there is no harm but that is obviously better said than done for some people.

I guess my point is, for those doing it long term at what point did you get the point where you don't even think about it ? Are there any people out there who went off porn and still found they had difficulties with masturbating frequently.

FailingForward · Mar 14, 2020

Bro I am over 200 days and it does not, I’m going to be 100% but it comes and goes urged stronger than others but you begin to love the person who you become because you’re pure and original through and through trying to be the best you. I think about it often but not often enough to bother me, but my body has wet dreams when needed and that’s how I chugged along. I am struggling now and I need to be better but I can do it bro each day I can and if a dude like me who used to do it at least once or twice a day can then you can man. This is a great way to be the man you always envisioned yourself to be. You got this bro

JoJo's fish and cheese · Mar 14, 2020

it does. over the years you become a man, an adult. over the many years you become capable like a child, with it.

Taternater · Mar 15, 2020

FailingForward said: ↑

Bro I am over 200 days and it does not, I’m going to be 100% but it comes and goes urged stronger than others but you begin to love the person who you become because you’re pure and original through and through trying to be the best you. I think about it often but not often enough to bother me, but my body has wet dreams when needed and that’s how I chugged along. I am struggling now and I need to be better but I can do it bro each day I can and if a dude like me who used to do it at least once or twice a day can then you can man. This is a great way to be the man you always envisioned yourself to be. You got this bro
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Wow really needed to read this. Thanks so much! I know you weren't responding to me, but I always get tempted and wonder if its worth it. Especially when I am tempted the way I am right now. I just think this is impossible and not worth it. Anyway I am thankful you posted this.

FY_33 · Mar 15, 2020

T-1000 said: ↑

Looking toward those who have been on NoFap for extensive periods of time, I have been masturbating pretty much daily, since I was a teenager. In the past few years, since my depression and anxiety has got worse and I am living alone, it has gone up to 2-3 times a week, sometimes even more and my pornography use has gone up the charts.

My most recent NoFap attempt was around 15 days or so and it all stemmed from a one night stand where I couldn't get it up, she promptly left, it was embarrassing....I was so depressed and down about it I simply didn't want to masturbate..I couldn't work out if it was the alcohol, my depression, stress etc. I currently have three days under my belt, I plan on doing it for at least a fortnight. My goal is to get to a stage where I have no longer any desire or interest to watch porn, I hope this will increase my desire and motivation to find a partner and overall improve my life balance. I am hoping if I'm no longer watching porn, I will be masturbating far less than what I am now and ideally, would like to limit it to maybe a few times a month.

In all honesty and as much as I'd like to, I don't know if I could ever permanently incorporate NoFap into my life, I believe pornography for the majority of men is damaging but I still think the verdict is out on NoFap, I think if you can moderate it there is no harm but that is obviously better said than done for some people.

I guess my point is, for those doing it long term at what point did you get the point where you don't even think about it ? Are there any people out there who went off porn and still found they had difficulties with masturbating frequently.
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Already left P and have no interest or dependance on it.
Right now fighting this wild animal that lives inside me.
I can tame it with MO, but i choose to not tame it.
I just being grateful.
I no longer sexualize every girl i see
I no longer has sexual toughts every damn seconds or minutes
I can choose to M daily like in my past days, but choose not to do it.
I want to shoot my load inside my wife V to have a baby.
Need a mindset, and the longer you do nofap, the stronger the mindset.

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