My husband the porn addict

Thanks everybody for the replies I had the paper printed out in my hand and went to him and we talked I never showed him the paper . Of course he denied he was watching porn that he had stopped ... I find that hard to believe but I want to. I don’t want to check on him because it spirals out of control for me then . I will find something eventually and I will see the things he looks at and won’t be able to forget . He goes to counseling and I go to counseling . He wanted me to go because I “make” him... I know I’m not perfect by any means but he’s my main stress factor I feel like I have to babysit him yet I can’t 24/7 and porn is accessible in his pocket day and night . If there’s a will there’s a way, I can not control him I can only tell him how it makes me feel how he handles it from there is up to him.
I just don’t see any changes and I’m honestly not sure if I ever will . Even if he wasn’t looking I just don’t think I can believe it at this point he lied too often he even denied it to my face until I gotten specific on the details of it ...My counselor wants us to go to couples counseling and I agree we have issues not only about sex but in general. But with him
Being on second shift for now and me on thirds there is no time to go and I’m not going on a weekend when we only have one day to spent together . The last thing I want to do is argue .
I don’t want to divorce him but maybe he is one of those people that has to be shocked to wake up and realize what he’s doing to us .

 

I do and she recommended couples counseling which he finally agreed to but with this virus there’s no chance going anytime soon

 

She’s just a behavioral specialist . What are the addict specialists called or do they have a certain name?

 

Thank you !