Again :(

Shit happens man.
Stay strong next time don't give up

 

What a good idea to share this at this forum, my friend! You're not alone. I'm not sure if I understand you correctly but if you're into girls' underwear, you'd better throw that stuff out. It is a trigger for your addiction.

Read at this forum how people got out of trouble. Make a journal and write in it how you are planning to stay clean. Do this every day for a couple of weeks and you'll be determined and become stronger within yourself. For now, throw away all temptations in sight and dedicate yourself to finding your way out of the trouble you're certainly in. Do this for yourself and your future because this may become bigger as you continue and someday explode in your face. And I can tell from my own experience, this is hell on earth.

 

Women don't like to show what they have, my friend, they're equally hurt as we are and think they need the attention to feel worthwhile. They don't love themselves so they can't really love you, just as you don't love yourself and cannot really love them. Stopping your addiction will create more selflove for you and then you can really start loving people. That's when all your sorrow will be over and you'll think back at this time as a bad but fruitful period in your life.

 

Man, you have to avoid everything that makes you fail at all cost, so that when you come into contact with something, you'll have enough strength to stop yourself. It's hard, we all know it, but you have to be who-heartedly devoted to do it. You must realise that you'll never look at porn or never masturbate in you life again. That's the only way. Make a stronger resolution and when urges come, at all costs, do anything to avoid them. After some time it'll get much easier, but it'll be a rough ride for you at the beginning.
Get ready, do it, and become free.

 

The stuff does not make you fail, your choice makes you fail. And just because you fail does not make you a failure. You are a valuable person even if you fail.

You just need to do three things:
change your behavior, change your behavior and change your behavior. That is all. You will feel better, be more confident, have more joy in life.

How? Stop looking at everything that makes you horny for thirty days. Just stop it! If you think about it, say 'No, I promised I would not do it.' Use your will power at first, then when you feel better start relaxing a little. Right now, be strict and simply stop!

 

Very true, well said

 

Yes, you do that and don't be too hard on yourself. Give yourself credit for undertaking this journey. You're worth it!

 

Thanks

 

The way you say this is so sad and so true. It's hard for guys to walk around and just have a normal day without being reminded of sexual desires. But that's why the strong people succeed in NoFap, despite all those reminders. Join us, my friend.