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19 yr old erection problems please help

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Waveback, Jun 8, 2020.

  1. Waveback

    Waveback Fapstronaut

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    I hope this thread is the right one,
    I began fapping when i was about 13. I was able to get good erections just by staring at a porno, fast forward to now i am 19 and have to stroke my flaccid penis in order to get an erection and if i stop for a moment while "hard" it immediately starts going down. I do not get morning wood. I never had a wet dream. I feel like it will be like this forever. I remember when i was 13 my morning wood was way bigger than what i get now from porn.

    My glans also seems to have lack of blood flow to it (because it does not even look like anything i have ever seen on the internet. Closest search i got to was "soft glans syndrome") and it seems like the head is also a bit dry, im uncircumcised btw
    I just dont know what to do, I keep failing nofap.

    P.S. Would people say that losing fat on stomach and pubic area do anything to the size of my member? Or at least make it look bigger?
     
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  2. Hello man, don't worry about it, I pretty much had the same problem, you just need to let time heal it. So I would suggest that you focus on quitting P for now. I myself had my first wetdream after a month of no PMO (don't focus to much on morning woods, it is not a good indicator of your penis health). Once you achieve a good rebooting period, learn sex again, I personally feel like I discovered sex when I did with P in my life.
    So really don't focus too much about it for now, because if you do, you will ruin your streaks by wanting to "see if you can erect fine now". Do not watch P, do not M, and life will come back to normal after some time! I wish you luck :)
     
  3. Daxos

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    Classical PIED. We've all been there. The point at which someone finally really snaps into PIED is different. I was 19 too when it happened to me. You don't see what changes were already happening in the previous years under the hood. Just like it takes years before the real symptoms of smoking take effect, the same goes for PIED.
    I am pretty sure it's just PIED.

    Do NoFap for at least 90 days will do the trick. Nothing is broken. It is all reversible.
    "Would people say that losing fat on stomach and pubic area do anything to the size of my member? Or at least make it look bigger?"
    It could only make it look bigger in comparison, but for as far as I know, you can only gain small size changes by penile extenders although I recommend against it unless you are really unconfident about a 'small' penis.
     
  4. UnitedWeStand

    UnitedWeStand Fapstronaut

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    i tottaly agree with daxos. It's just pied symptoms. Im in the reboot process for nearly 3 years with many ups and down (relapses) but still managed to reverse pied. For me rebooting with gf helped. Hardmode will fix it faster but it is surely harder. Accept the fact that there will be relapses but be brave enough to never stop trying..even a day more than your previous streak will do it..Now im in 250 days and 80-90 fixed pied.. improvements come along as you insist on rebooting. Trust the process and ask me whatever you want
     
  5. Waveback

    Waveback Fapstronaut

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    Thanks, Im feeling more confident this time that I will make it past 2 weeks... Besides when I relapsed once on day 12 I had way better feeling than before nofap.
     
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  6. UnitedWeStand

    UnitedWeStand Fapstronaut

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    In my opinion just persist and believe in the process unless there are other problem like medocal conditions physiological or psychological.
    dont be afraid to fail
    fail again, fail better
    And always remember not to binge. One relapse doesnt mean that you begiin from square one. I failed dozens of times but after many relapses i got the mindset to target a better streak than the previous one and now its a lot easier (there are time where urges hit). Im here to help fpr any question!
     
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  7. Waveback

    Waveback Fapstronaut

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    Unfortunately i had relapsed. I dont feel sad tho.
     
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  8. UnitedWeStand

    UnitedWeStand Fapstronaut

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    It's okay just go for a bigger streak and dont binge
     
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