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I feel really REALLY bad for teenagers/young adults

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by smokeshade, Jun 23, 2020.

  1. smokeshade

    smokeshade Fapstronaut

    Sorry if this is the wrong place for this thread, I'm new here so I didn't know where else to put it.

    But MAN, I really feel bad for young men and teenagers who are going through this type of addiction. I was born in 88, and I didn't even get a smartphone until I was in my 20's. When I was going through puberty, porn wasn't exactly all that easy to get. You could get it, but you had to know where to get it and a 300 MB video would take DAYS to download, and I won't even get into how slow 56k modems would be.

    Nowadays, porn is not only everywhere but it's instantaneous. Half of the discord servers I go into have a NSFW section that's got minimal screening, and on top of that, sex-workers and porn is being championed on social media. I didn't really think about this until recently, but at the same time I can't really talk about how wrong that is without feeling like a hypocrite.

    I'm just glad there are movements like this around that can provide support to everyone going through this, especially for the younger ones. I'm sorry this is the world they have to grow up in.

    EDIT: On top of that, I also feel REALLY bad for young women who not only have masturbation addiction, but also see that all this social condoning of sex-workers and starring as a pornstar or cam-girl looks like a valid profession.
     
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  2. fredisthebes

    fredisthebes Fapstronaut

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    Same! Born in '83. 'porn' to me was the ten minute Freeview before the (encrypted) adult channels on TV started. or it was one of my brother's magazines (Playboy, FHM, etc). Even when I got the internet it was rarely any more hardcore than 'Robbs Celebs'. And I just used to stare at them and try and keep them in my memory on my shared family computer, before deleting the browsing history of course. Seems so innocent to me now!

    University was my downfall - high speed internet for the first time, my own computer and a dormitory room with a lock on it :)
     
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  3. It is a shame. Would love to have a child some day, but I have concerns about how to keep them away from these things. There is only so much a parent can do to stop it. My school gave a talk about the issue once and it only seemed to make me more curious.
     
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  4. smokeshade

    smokeshade Fapstronaut

    I hear ya. I remember being in sixth grade and some speaker came to our class to tell us about the 'dangers of getting high sniffing felt pens'. We were all like "wait....you can do that?!"
    With young children today I am truly terrified about how they're going to turn out decades later. There's a girl in the family that is kind of hooked on roblox and uses her older sister's tablet to watch youtube videos on it, and apparently a few weeks ago the older sister was looking through her youtube history and found some pretty disturbing stuff on the youtube kids section featuring roblox. If you don't know what I mean, google 'elsagate'. It's pretty sinister, kinda makes me start thinking like a doomer.
    If/when I have children I'm going to do my damnedest to make sure they're not using an internet device without an eyeball on it until I can no longer have control over it. Though even then there's only so much I can do, can't just keep them shut off from the world because that could just backfire. I guess the only thing that can be done is to just be as much of a positive influence as possible.
     
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  5. Haha lol it is a bit like that. As kids we get told what 'not' to do and it just sparks our curiosity. Its actually a psychological phenomena called negative suggestion. Anyway, I agree, we cant just shelter kids completely because that just leads to its own problems. Being a positive influence is really our only defence and education done properly.
     
  6. bigboibez

    bigboibez Fapstronaut

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    22 here and I've quit currently not looked (searched for or in any way shape or form cheated) or MOd in over a month, in april PMO'd once. But I'm never going back now it's gotta be now or never- already wasted too many years on this worthless shit
     
  7. As a 24 year old, I can't help but worry. For me, it's how normalised it has become. Every man and his dog that I know watches porn, all the time. I've only recently been observing that actually I have some serious problems with it and I know for a fact if I do some of my peers do. Almost impossible to discuss with the vast majority of people...
     

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