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I'm not sure what happen but it was bad.

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Gfranco11, Aug 15, 2020.

  1. Gfranco11

    Gfranco11 Fapstronaut

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    I have been posting for a while of being a porn addict. Staying in the computer screen for a while watching pornography.
    I was being shy and havent being dating for years.
    Now suddenly I met a match with this girl I have seen her for about 2 weeks.
    Yesterday finally I got her to come to my apartment and we had sex BUT it didnt end as i was expecting.

    Everything came fine when my penis started to be hard and later it was dying out during intercourse and I didnt cum. she look at me asking me what happen. I had no idea what to tell her. I havent had sex for about 2 years. it just dying, we end up night with silence.

    Guys I need your help and your expertise.
    What did I do wrong?
    Is the fapping that is hurting real sex.
    Or is not enough sex experience.
    I end up confuse, how to improve myself to become a better man.

    Right now, I feel confuse and sad.
    If there is a way I can improve
     
  2. My guess, you don't actually like her all that much. Alternatively, it could be PIED. Could also be that you psyched yourself out.

    If she still wants to see you, I'd talk to her about it. Tell her things that are going on in your life. Tell her what you were thinking about when it happened. What you were afraid of. Tell her what you want. What you are looking for. Its a lot more satisfying to have sex with someone you can be honest with. And if you don't want to talk about those things with her than we are back at my first guess, you don't actually like her all that much.
     

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