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16 y.o Panicking, What Happened To My Penis?

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Recoveryattempt, May 5, 2020.

  1. Recoveryattempt

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    Alright so as background info, i have been jerking off for about 4-5 years. I was jerking off 3 days ago and suddenly noticed I only had a 30% erection, basically flaccid with no girth. This was during me jerking off so I panicked and kept trying and only came with a 50% erection.

    note: i usually jerk off by rubbing the lower head of my penis to the shaft which is a little aggressive, however sensitivity on my glans (lower head area i mentioned) still has sensitivity. However my overall penis feels less sensitive and more flaccid during the time im writing this.

    After this, i noticed i couldnt get hard, my penis felt odd (lost sensitivity and increased flaccidity). I also felt unsatisfied from my orgasm and had a dopamine high with anxiety out of fear for the rest of the night.

    Wake up in the morning, my penis still feels soft flaccid, i cant get hard without physical stimulation and if im watching porn its a good length but the girth is not at its maximum as before this happened. (Probably a 85-90% erection)

    i’m scared because of how sudden these effects hit me.

    my penis still feels like this. It usually takes physical stimulation to get hard and the erections dont feel the same. Im so young still so this problem scares me a lot (im still a virgin). I usually just feel depressed and cry, i feel like i’ll be stuck with a messed up dick forever. Im sorry this is in rant format but i cant help it. I just need reassurance and help
     
    Last edited: May 5, 2020
  2. Mistersofty

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    It sounds more like an anxiety problem to me. You could be overthinking this. Give your mind a few days to calm down and your erections will likely return to normal.
     
  3. recoome

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    could be due to a lot of jacking off. give ur penis some rest (a few days)
     
  4. DrabToLight

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    Having anxiety over this will just make it worse. Most likely, it's what happens to lots of men. There is no magic switch in the brain we can push that says, "get an erection now".

    You didn't mention if you are circumcised. If you are, consider using a little lube or hand lotion. Some hand or body lotion on your glans after a shower will help keep it moist and sensitive. Just a drop and coat the glans.

    IMPORTANT: hand and body lotion contain petroleum products and are should not be used with a condom. Water-based lube will work just as well but, will need to be applied a few times a day.

    One of the things circumcision does is dry out the glans. As we age, the glans gets even dryer. That dry layer is keratin which is the same material your fingernails and hair are made of.

    Also, read up on death grip in the NoFap literature.
     
  5. Recoveryattempt

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    no, im not circumcised. However it doesnt fully cover my penis when its flaccid and during my erections my foreskin does roll back fully from the head. Im using a phone, is it still possible to access this literature?
     
  6. DrabToLight

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    I would recommend seeing a doctor regarding your foreskin not pulling back when erect. Yes, it's a bit embarrassing. Nothing I say or that the doctor says will make the embarrassment of telling your doctor you are having a problem with your penis feel any less. It is most likely it is nothing and the doctor will tell you tat it is nothing to worry about.

    However, on the small chance it is something, seeing a doctor makes good sense.

    Here is what I do when I see a doctor. I write down on a notebook piece of paper my top five reasons for being there. Write down one sentence each. Even if you have to add a few questions just to have the foreskin question blend in, that is fine.

    So, your paper might look like this:

    1. Annual physical
    2. Vaccines: Hep A, Hep B, HPV, Tetanus, Flu, Pneumonia, others?
    3. My Foreskin doesn't pull back all the way
    4. Headaches when I study for more than a few hours
    5. Sometimes heartburn after a big meal.

    Put the paper on the exam table and sit in one of the chairs, not on the exam table. If they ask you to sit on the exam table, put the paper next to you. Trust me the doctor will appreciate it and it will get to your questions without the doctor interrupting you. Studies show that on average a doctor lets a patient speak for about 15 seconds before they interrupt.

    Don't use my list, add real things you have questions on. Just add in some fillers only if you can't think of five questions.

    If your parent has to be in the room with you, ask if a staff member could be in the room when the doctor exams your foreskin if having your parent in the room would bother you.

    Yes.

    https://nofap.com/porn-addiction/

    https://nofap.com/rebooting/

    AND ... if you can download and read a PDF file,

    Download the free Getting Started guide.
     
  7. Recoveryattempt

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    It does roll all the way back when im erect. Thank you for the info though.
     
  8. _most.high_

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    dude ,
    youre on some bullshit. if you really wanted this youd make the lifestyle changes necessary, a reboot will not take the famed '90 days' rather for younger guys 9 months plus.
    im 16 years old, developed pied at 15, maybe 14, idk , i just noticed i had it at 15 when i limp dicked this chick.

    i was ina 6 month cycle of relapse, then i decided ive had enough. currently its been 5 + months and i get morning erections back (never had them since 14) , extremely sensitive, can get aroused to thoughts(although thats counterproductive and i try not to) ive been in a flatline for 4 + months and only a couple of weeks ago ive gotten a sort of sex drive, however it went away again.

    i could probably have sex now, but ill give myself another 3 months before i try.
    you have to want this bro, i was one of the hardest porn users and had severe pied , and things are already looking up, within just 5 months, i expect to be cured in atleast 10 months more( ( i suppose ill be sexually functual fully by month 8, but fully cured by month 15. i could probably have sex now but thats not plausable)

    your mindset is weak man, ive been 5 months absolutely no porn masturbation and orgasm.
    hope you figure your shit out
     
  9. How often do you jerk off? How many times in a single setting? Do you watch porn? How long do you do it for? These are some factors that could be causing your problem. You're probably just jerking it too much/watching too much porn and your dick needs a break.
     

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