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I overmasturbated at the age of 16

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Khang5687, Oct 18, 2020.

  1. Khang5687

    Khang5687 New Fapstronaut

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    Hello, I'm Khang and I'm currently 16. Recently, since the pandemic happened. We have been quarantined since then. I'm a teen so I got bored so fast that I looked for porn, hentai, etc... I masturbated a lot, I mean like everyday, sometimes 2-3 times a day. About 2 months ago. I started to realize that I haven't got any morning wood, instead I got pre-ejaculations, my "little guy" comes down really quickly (about 10 seconds) if I stop fantasizing, but it still works. Istarted my NoFap journey about 5 days now. But I'm still scared...I can't get to see a doctors because they are too far from my house. But I talked online to some doctors and some says that I have ED and won't recover unless I see a doctor, some says that I don't have to worry about it, just change my life style, do nofap, think positively. Can someone make me feel less worried? I can't even sleep and feel upset every morning because my "little guy" doesn't wake up :(
     
  2. Dude,what is it with you worrying about your "little guy"? He's not so little for you to worry about him. He's still intact and he can function well. Just keep it at that. I haven't had any morning woods for a while but I don't care about that. I made it this far because I learned from my mistakes way back when I wanted to check if I have ED but that was a dumb move which led me to thinking that a relapse and a new streak will get things going better for me.

    Just relax,take it easy and chill. No need to go see doctors or anything. It'll get hard when it needs to get hard. If you really are having doubts of your "little guy" then try laying down on your stomach. When you do that, your midsection gets pressured by the weight of all your organs backing it up so all that pressures goes down to your lower midsection.
     
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  3. FlowingSaiyan

    FlowingSaiyan Fapstronaut

    Well then, I guess you're normal. The 'little guy' insecurity is quite normal, and so is over-masterbation. So, you're just like everyone else. But since you are at this forum, it shows that you are willing to battle your addiction, and that sets you apart from everyone else, and now the only path left is straight ahead. So just focus on improving your streak. If I was in your situation, I would be pretty proud of myself.
     
  4. InTheWilderness

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    You can be sexually healthy and not have that little guy hard. I am speaking from experience. Once you entered that state or frame of mind where PMO is no longer a thing, your little guy will be very relaxed each morning. It’s an amazing state to be in! Where you’re not bothered or distracted by anything sexual. Your little guy will be in hibernation mode. It will still open its eye here and there but not fully wake up until you wake it up.

    At first I thought that there might be something wrong with my little guy, but that’s how a lot of them relapsed because they’re curious and wanted to make sure that it’s still working so they either start edging or MO and then quickly regretted.

    As for your case, it might be overdoing it, but don’t worry. It will be back. Just take it easy with M. In my teen, there was one night where I M like three times before I went to bed, woke up next morning and my little guy was totally dead for 2-3 days if my memory is correct.

    EDIT: if I can add one more thing: in a state where you’re free from PMO, you can still get hard in the morning, but without the urge / desire to M (no joke), and the hardness will quickly go away as you focus on your life for the day.
     
    Last edited: Oct 18, 2020

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