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I feel weak .. very weak!

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by amrr, Jul 28, 2015.

  1. Jul 28, 2015 #1
    amrr

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    I feel gross.

    I feel sick.

    I am addicted.

    Today, instead of working out, I masturbated.

    Instead of coding, I slept. Because I had no energy!

    I never felt that addicted before. I wish I'll never PMO again.

    I am not attracted to any girls anymore. I broke up with my fiance last week because mainly I felt absolutely no attraction to her .. and I felt like I should be more attracted to the girl I will marry .. I didnt know that no one will ever get me excited because Im used to seeing the best of the best everyday .. everyday.

    I took that action of quitting before, and never exceeded 3 weeks strong.

    I don't want to collapse.

    I'm 24 - PMOing for 10+ years

    I want to take a grip on life .. I want to love my life .. I want to love being surrounded with girls again ..

    You truly inspire and motivate me, each and every one of you.

    I just started my 90 days no PMO count.

    I wish myself good luck.
     
    amrr, Jul 28, 2015
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  2. Jul 28, 2015 #2
    Aghast

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    Hey amrr. Its not easy when you work in front of a computer. A big part in quitting PMO is staying away from the computer.

    That being said, anything is possible with enough commitment youll just need to get clever and really restrict your activities. Setting goals within time frames and making consequences for yourself if the goals arent achieved can help. Also setting a morning or evening routine for the gym can help (routines are best when less thought is involved, just an automatic response.)

    You are probably in a tough place right now emotionally. After parting with your fiance its normal to feel sad for a few months while you readjust to a new life (I had to go though it to a number of years ago).

    The bright side is still very bright though. There are tons of single ladies out there and with the rise in popularity of online dating theres never been a better time to be single (although it may take some time to find the right one, try to enjoy the process:), I met my current wife on plenty of fish a few years ago and life has been much better!)

    Once you get this crappy PMO thing behind you the world will be your oyster and that is definitely something to be excited for!
     
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  3. Jul 29, 2015 #3
    zeral

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    Forgive yourself, its all a learning process. Get back up and set them goals for sure :)
     
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  4. Jul 29, 2015 #4
    SnowWhite

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    I appreciate your words. That's so true and so simple.

    Getting out of PMO is learning - just like learning a language. Step by step. Over time, you are more and more shifting into a new life and "forgetting" PMO.
     
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  5. Aug 2, 2015 #5
    therealjocab

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    Amrr, dropping by to say I hope you're successful as well. Stay motivated, don't get to down with failings and lean on others for encouragement. We can do it brother! Workout tomorrow morning?
     
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  6. Aug 3, 2015 #6
    amrr

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    Hey bro,
    Thanks a lot for passing by.

    Thankfully, I'm still motivated. And yes, I worked out today morning :)

    In fact, this topic truly motivates me. Every time I feel like I'm missing PMO, I come here and read my own topic. Makes me feel like "I don't wanna be in this mood ever again".

    And people like you, those who care .. are exceptionally motivating and inspiring as well.

    Thanks again for passing by bro
    Cheers
     
    amrr, Aug 3, 2015
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  7. Aug 4, 2015 #7
    zeral

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    This is true... i reread threads and they help :) keep up thegood work.
     
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  8. Aug 4, 2015 #8
    amrr

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    zeral :) Hi
    I hope things are going great with you. I hope you broke your 5 days again ;)

    Today is my 7th day - I'm kinda busy, so I don't find it very hard till now (I just miss my penis a lil but haha)

    I was watching a movie yesterday. then I was like, "man .. I gotta close this shit or else I'll be jerking off by the end of the movie" haha

    Keep up the good work too bro
    Thanks for passing by
     
    amrr, Aug 4, 2015
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