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Badly addicted

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Badly addicted ..., Mar 17, 2021.

  1. Badly addicted ...

    Badly addicted ... New Fapstronaut

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    Hi guys......my name is vijay...... I'm 21 years old....I have been watching porn for 6 years..... I daily watch porn..... It's started when i was in school... But after completing 10th i bought a mobile and after that i watch and watch and watch from then to now.....i didn't do anything special in my life...i think porn is the reason which stop me to fulfill my dreams.... I have not much friends because i spend most my day in my room alone.... I am so shy, lonely.....i think porn makes me lazy, shy, dumb ... I tried to quit many time but i am not able to quit.... Im very depressed because of that sometime sucidial thoughts came to my mind because i did nothing except wasting my parents income..... I tried many time but i didn't succeed....i have no GF... Im not attractive because of porn......but now i want to change my life i waste 21 years of my life.... I dont wanna waste more..... I give myself 2 years from today. ....if I'll not change in two years i'm going give up my life.... My highest streak is for 7 days....

    From today i take 21 day challenge....

    Help & support me guys.... Im really depressed...
     
  2. obi64

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    Everything will be better may be not in two years or maybe in two years.

    I suffered in many ways like you did and im 22 and I've been addicted longer than you and my life got better after i beat porn.

    Please don't give up or you will lose. I treat porn as something that was in my life that helped me grow into who i am because i constantly tried to improve myself to fight porn and because of that i am who i am today

    I think it's the same case with you don't give up. The fact that you are worried about your parents and you are worried about your contributions and all that means you are a wonderful person

    You keep fighting and caring despite everything thats happened to you. You can do this. Just keep pushing. You just need a leg up and i will help you i will share my success story with you maybe that can help

    My success story is called i think i cracked the code. Just go to success stories and search for it. I guarantee you you will receive some insight.

    I will even post it here but first i need you to hear these words that im saying
     
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  3. Diderik

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    @Badly addicted ... Suicidality is tough. Don’t be afraid to see a clinician about it if you aren’t and you can.

    Keep your head up and keep trying. We can do this!

    Challenges help, especially when you are accountable. Post your plans and progress.

    Be vigilant. Don’t let’s get complacent.

    Good luck!
     
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  5. Loving Loveless

    Loving Loveless Fapstronaut

    Just a year younger that you are. Similar situation in school as well. But you did the first step. And that is admitting. Now comes the continued movement away from what you admitted to be a problem. You'll see everything rolling in eventually. Confidence, communication, an unexplained joy, concentration and focus, and the list goes on.

    Browse the forums, read success stories, search for tips and tricks from the successful ones. You'll get support endlessly.
     
  6. Rana333

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    hello friend , i want to tell you that you could't complete 2 years NoFap without any relapse . In NoFap journey you will relapse many times but when you relapse try again
     
  7. Rana333

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    Read this book 'YOU ARE NOT YOUR BRAIN'
     
  8. Retentionman

    Retentionman Fapstronaut

    Ypur mentality has to change since the first day. How about instead of badly addicted, think I'm overcoming my addiction each day. Let's focus on the solution here, your situation can be tough. You might feel at the bottom now but as I read somebody's signature here that said:

    you can be at the bottom but the bottom doesn't necessarily have to be shitty, if you raise your head you can see the light above, or something like that lol

    So change your mentality, make a decision and work on it, one day at a time
     
  9. Rana333

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    Don't Think That you are addicted to porn , you are not addicted to porn just your brain is addicted to porn .
    Read the book 'YOU ARE NOT YOUR BRAIN' then you will completely understand
     
  10. Retentionman

    Retentionman Fapstronaut

    Title sounds interesting, I'll download it now
     

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