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Imagination addiction

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Bulzew, May 31, 2021.

  1. Bulzew

    Bulzew New Fapstronaut

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    Hi everyone ,
    I may be not a porn addict , quitting porn is easy for me .. but what's hard is my imagination...
    I'm already suffering from intense daydreaming locking myself in my room working remote jobs low self-esteem...

    My imagination is intense and full of details not like anyone else

    I always daydreaming/imagining/fantasizing about sex , the problem is , it's even before i discovered porn since i was 8-10 years old before even i knew women had vaginas and i was fantasizing about my sexual stuff without even know about orgasms...

    I really want to stop this shit the problem is i think I'm too far and suck , and nobody understands daydreaming well you might just reply "just stop thinking" and I've been trying to do that for my last 12 years

    I'm 22 right now i really want to get my shit together and start living a normal life

    And I don't know how to stop daydreaming
    Specially sexual one , i can spend hours laying in my bed just thinking :/

    I've tried exercising and gaming and alot of stuff
    Everything seems boring for me even porn i can't stand watching +20 minutes of porn i just stop the video and keep fantasizing porn in my head :/

    Btw i have no fetish or weird sexual behavior im straight..

    Is there's anything that can help me through this I'm really want to start living and get away from my head
     
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  2. pancakebaker99

    pancakebaker99 Fapstronaut

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    I'm honestly the same way I'm a very shy introvert also bipolar been homeschooled most my life I even got a birth defect in my jaw. So daydreaming and movies are something that really attracts me a lot just living in my fantasy world since the issues I am dealing with aren't in that world.

    I think sexual daydreams are harder to deal with than regular ones I still daydream sometimes but something that has sort of helped me stop daydreaming about sex is the impact of real sex.

    For example, I knew this one girl she was pretty I liked a lot her a lot and she was nice to me but she had a reputation.
    I later found out that she got pregnant. Stuff like that just breaks my fantasy about sex I'm 23 I don't want to be a father that might change later I doubt it.

    To stop regular daydreaming that isn't sexual I would suggest writing I been writing short stories about fantasies it has really helped a lot
     
  3. AversioN

    AversioN Fapstronaut

    I think daily meditation practise will you much! You will be more mindful & thoughtful. For me, I can daydream for hours if I have nothing to do at all. So, I make myself engage in activities that helps me keep busy, like working out, praying to God, listening to music etc.
     
  4. PK_CODES

    PK_CODES Fapstronaut

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    I guess you need a good teacher , who will teach you to be concious , i will suggest you to join a community of monks (if you have no problem ) or there is " isha " community be part of them , tell them your problem
    ORRR ORR ORR
    Yeah i will tell you good solution , visit a good psychologist , (make sure its male (lol) just because , if its women and if she appears beautiful you will again start fantasizing (lol)) , anyway , tell them your problem , surely i guess , it would be good

    Remeber , Prevention is better than cure
     
  5. diep

    diep Fapstronaut

    Hi there,

    I was like you. I have been addicted to porn since I was 12 years old. It took me several years to recognize how bad it is. I also daydreamed a lot about porn. I thought I must have great sex like porn to achieve the ultimate happiness. The reality was harsh and I was used to consume porn to cope with real life. Later I tried to quit on my own. It was not possible. But things change significantly when I knew God. I always wish that I would know him sooner. I did not have a privilege of knowing God when I was 22. You still have a great future. Don't worry, seek God and read Bible. You will find him. God loves you, Bulzew.

    John 3:16
    For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.
     
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