Getting rid of my disgusting diaper fetish

Look into the mirror and say to yourself thisnfetish is bad for my health I need to stop and dip your face in the the sink cold water

 

You are not your addiction, you are not your fetish, anymore than someone who wants to give up drinking is not defined by alcohol.

Fetishes can be very hard to get out from under but it is possible -
What triggers this? Anxiety? Loneliness? You don't know yet? Start tracking what triggers it..



https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/reb...artner-is-probably-better-than-its-ever-been/
https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/reb...ccounts-page-3/how-i-overcame-my-bdsm-fetish/
https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/rebooting-porn-use-faqs/is-my-fetish-porn-induced/

YPOP has a lot of threads about it:

https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/?s=fetish

 

The trick is to not act on these urges.
The first weeks the urges will be very strong but you have to stay stronger and with the time the urges will go away and because you don’t feed it anymore this fetish will lose power day by day and with the time it will disappear completely.
But you have to take NoFap hardmore seriously.
Don’t relapse each time.
No fantasy, NoFap, no porn, no sex

 

Believe me in that you're not the only one who has this and wants it out of their life. I've struggled with it as well for a little over 10 years now. The battle rages on, but the key is to remember that your fetish doesn't define you. You can make a choice.

If you want an accountability partner with you on this, feel free to let me know. Would love to help overcome it with you!

 

Good call coming here. Hope everything works out!

 

Hi guys, me too here having this sexual fetish, i just seems to cant get rid of it, i keep relapsing.. help me!!!

 

Ain't nothing sexual about that bullshit. Stay away from porn and your mind will get cleaned.

 

Take a look at my story

Am I a Sissy?? (Actually a good story with happy ending, trust me, read the whole thing)

Different fetish, same issues.

You can definitely rewire yourself and live the sexual life you truly desire. Check out YBOP for the best info

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Studies linking porn use to poorer mental-emotional health & poorer cognitive outcomes

https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/ybop-articles-on-porn-addiction-porn-induced-problems/

I know it's a lot but knowledge is power against this terrible affliction.

 

Agreed.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) really helps with this if the fetish is fear based or rejection based. I struggled with aspects of this for a lifetime (non porn induced).

With feitshes like these (non porn induced) there often is underlying emotional healing needs, insecurity, shame, trauma, and confusion. Such was this in my case. It is possible to learn what true love and healthy vulnability is. Freedom from this junk is possible.

Strength, grace, and peace to you all.

 

Can someone please tell me what to do because i have the same fetish and skiped vanilla sex i want to be normal

 

I overcame mine 100%. Here's how:

I was abused with potty training as a child, so mine came out of a massive need for comfort and safety. I've had this desire since I was 3 years old.

The way I did it was overtime showing myself compassion and slowly accepting the hard reality that I was abused, and it's not my fault that I was missing that grounding source of nurture. I accepted that I wanted to wear them and that it wasn't a shameful thing based on what I went through, and that it didn't make me less of a person. Having this does not make you less of a person, either, and it's okay that you're struggling. I have brothers in Christ who helped me to remove the shame of this. Shame tangles everything up and keeps in bondage to it.

Once I accepted this hard reality and not be afraid of diapers, to even accept the idea of wearing them (which I didn't at this stage), the shame, fear, and the grip of it completely disappeared. I absolutely have zero desire anymore and they are just an object, like anything else.

I'm still overcoming a (pee fetish/OCD) but the diaper fetish is 100% gone.

I encourage you to give yourself the comfort in that area that you actually are looking for, with a trusted counselor.

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Now, if your diaper fetish was developed out of porn use, then this can be much easier to tackle if trauma/parental neglect wasn't involved. I encourage you to check out the many forums and support on overcoming the brainwashing of pornography and fetishes that already exist on this site and others. The more you abstain from pornography and learn how to re-see reality and life for what it is and in health, it will fade overtime. It is a journey of healing, not a sprint.

God bless you, and praying for recovery and overcoming.

 

Thank you so much looking forward to seeing your posts in the christian forum!

 

Take care; journal is separate.