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Will no PMO increase the chance of making friendships and maybe getting into relationship?

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by slyrack1, Sep 4, 2021.

  1. slyrack1

    slyrack1 Fapstronaut

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    I suffer from depression, social anxiety, low self-eestem and I'm very shy.

    I had some relationships and I have some not very meaningful friendships. I have problems to connect to others and my friends live far away, so I rarely can see them. I also have no contact to my family.

    I'm in a bad place at the moment, that's why I PMO daily and I can't stop.

    I know I have to be happy and stable with being alone, but I'd love to share time with others. I miss my ex-girlfriend so much because we had a great time together. The greatest time in my entire life.

    Will staying away from PMO increase the chance of friendships and maybe a relationship? I cannot even remember when I talked to a real person the last time. (except for the cashier at the supermarket)
     
  2. JoeinUSA

    JoeinUSA Fapstronaut

    It won't be a magic formula, but no-PMO will get you out of being so self-absorbed and narcissistic, so as you work on ceasing PMO behavior, work on the opposite virtues of becoming more external to others (without an agenda) and empathetic of others (not always focusing on yourself). Recovery from PMO can also make you more confident, which often increases a manly register in your voice. At the same time as ceasing PMO, you should also renounce and turn your back on any twisted fetishes that you've learned or reinforced by PMO, for that will help you lead a better relational life with others as well. Other benefits will arise, too, plus other struggles or wounds to heal, perhaps, which you may have been previously masking with addiction. Now, you'll want to face them and respond in healthy ways. Yet, you'll be moving in the right direction and becoming more free in life as a result. Best wishes!
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  3. jcl1990

    jcl1990 Fapstronaut

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    Well, no PMO is just the foundation. You still have to do other things, too
     
  4. Flyman66666

    Flyman66666 Fapstronaut

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    I think so. Do nofap, infact better to do semen retention for 6 month..you will see a big change in you. Trust me...There will be a aura around you which you radiate and people can sense your aura. It attracts not only women but all so everybody.
    So do nofap..its a process..Trust the process.
     
  5. jsw_96

    jsw_96 Fapstronaut

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    Definitely start nofap. It’s a great way to start and it is definitely something you need to do. You also want to increase hobbies and just try and get out more. That will also help you. If you need any advice, honestly I’m here for you man. Just hit me up and we can talk
     
  6. yesss!
     
  7. ZombieMan

    ZombieMan Fapstronaut

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    It increases your chances by a landslide. Though your non porn addicted self also gotta be charismatic lol.
     

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