I think the deconstruction of intercourse and P would help me a lot to differentiate it. So basically intercourse is just two people doing stuff and then there comes morphine flood. The question is what is glorious about this? P seems to glorify intercourse to the highest orda, and make it as if intercourse is the thing perfect humans do. So to understand what is the difference between P and real intercourse. I'll try to make a list possibly will be updated later also. Difference of real and fake intercourse: 1. Making a gesture of losing their mind when coming. I get it, it feels good, but it doesn't feel as if you are losing your mind or something like that. Sometimes it can be fulfilling in real life but definitely not the kind of exaggerated fake face. In real life you can be satisfied, and feel more love towards your partner. Non of that is in P. 2. Good intercourse is not done by two people with supermodel face/superhung dick. It is done by people that loves each other, or at the least trust each other enough(ONS). 3. Good intercourse is not performative, as in P you can see the actor/actress is told to do with this pose, do that pose, show the genitals, moan, etc etc. In real life there should be a lot of compromise, talking, looking at each other, poking fun at each other moments. 4. In P, there is actually no communication happening between the people at all. When they look at each other, they look at each other not because they want to convey a message or saying I love you. On the contrary, it is a fake act, to look good/look sexy etc. 5. Any human moments in real intercourse is replaced with sexy moments. 6. Sexiness is glorified, to the highest order. P maximizes sexiness to the extreme, the way their camera move is also part of it. There is no way your face can look a close up to your partner genital, when you are doing the fucking (not oral). 7. In P addiction is encouraged, some example in Japan P sometimes there is a lot of scene where it's not consensual at first, but then in the middle the girl liking it and ask the guy more later 8. In P for the guy the dick is king, doesn't matter what he looks like, doesn't matter anything going on in his life. He got big dick, he the very best. Definitely not the case in real life, what matters is the connection. 9. In P for the girl pretty + good bod + sexual goddess is key. Definitely not the case in real life, get a girl which you love yo, plus get that connection. 10. In P every girl want you, for your presumed sexual prowess, once again it glorify sexiness. Of course it's not the case in real life. You need a lot more than that, self confidence, connection, self sufficiency, etc, etc. Definitely not because of sexual prowess. To conclude: P glorify sexiness to the highest orda, and encouraged its viewer to be addicted, by changing their world view that what they see is normal
Yo if anyone wants to add, everyone welcome! And sorry for writing from the male perspective, if any woman wants to add female perspective you are also welcome!
This is a list of differences that might seem obvious at first glance, but sometimes we forget and instead viewing real intercourse via P lense
When you quit porn and have sex with a real person it's 10x better than porn . It's obviously different though as you are physically present . Touch feeling . Everything you imagined is now a reality .
agree, although the key is knowing what you think is realistic and not. Realistic one should feel fulfilling
12. The analogies is like this, P is like golden dust, useless, can't really be touched, just glittery and shit, full of glamour but can't really be used for anything. While real life is like wooden spoon, it isn't glamorized but it works and full of purposes
13. P hurts people, it makes people feel inadequate, the real thing empower people. Give acceptance to how each of them are
