it's not natural gender photo, it's a man face... and nobody looks at your profile details, people look at the picture... Porn addiction is mostly a male problem, so all the people without profile pictures are probably man. I am not sure why you are even trying to argue with me. Let's say I was a cheetah, and I said that I like to hunt and eat Zebras at the savanna. and than you came and said it's offensive and I should progress to 2022 and eat vegan, that will sound ridiculous because it is: you are not a cheetah, you have no say on what a cheetah should feel or not feel about his eating habits. So on what basis are you arguing here ? I tell you about how the male brain works: it process images of woman as something very valuable, and assets them as less valuable if there is more of this pictures, just like fucking everything else in life: the more you have, the less you care about it. you can choose to insult, praise or cry over this, I don't care. facts are facts. You saying you don't like how the male brain works is pointless, it's like when a woman is ugly and fat but she call herself beautiful and sexy. it's like when a guy is lazy and broke but he calls himself successful. you can't give yourself trophies and than expect everyone else to follow
So freaking what? It's freaking Misha Collins from Supernatural. Grow up. Literally nobody cares about this except you. I'm not even going to begin to address this nonsense. That analogy is ridiculous, and you don't get to change subjects to my avatar being deceptive and then try to go back to the subject at hand, as if I have any interest in conversing with you. Why on earth would I bother? I literally just got an alert for a reply in another thread, and guess what that alert was? It was some dude telling a woman that her profile picture (which is of a woman) is triggering. Can't freaking win, can we? Almost everyone here has photos that are not of themselves, and there are lots of women here, because they are welcome. We don't need to wear a freaking yellow star to identify ourselves. I'm not being deceptive by having an avatar of a character I like. It's the avatar I had for years, and my old friends here know me by that photo. So again, I would implore you to grow the hell up.
There you go, 300. I removed "female" from my profile, so you have something new to cry about. I'm done responding to this crap.
Incel type beat...come on man you are better than this. Also, there's more to life than sex and the opposite sex. You do you
I have seen good quality guys simply avoid all woman, period. People are late to marry this days. people have less kids this days, it's a growing problem. And I agree, Porn is junk food. but the packages get better and better. it's easy to convince people to eat junk food because it brings a lot of calories. it bring obvious short term advantage. while in real woman you need to pay a lot of money (wedding, house, kids) when you start and see the benefits only long term, that's a good investment, but it's becoming harder and harder to convince people about it, because they get flooded with too much attention from other woman in the screen. So the point I was trying to make to make OP feel better, is that his view about woman's beauty is outdated, because their beauty's value has been deteriorated for the past 20 years because of porn, for a simple economies of supply and demand: supply of beauty goes up, while demands stays the same and even goes down to a level where people like us doesn't want to get supply at all, because they are so sick of this overflow of supply.
With your previous post, I may have thought you were saying women were mostly valued by their looks. Apologies if I got that mixed up. Yes I think porn may devalue women's looks. But I imagine porn user's demand for beauty may increase with ease of access and desensitisation.
It's just like the economic idea of inflation: if I print 1,000,000,000$ the supply of money goes up, so the demand for money also goes up. so Nike shoes that costs you 100$ will cost you 200$. so when Porn prints 1,000,000,000 woman, the supply of woman goes up. the demand for woman also goes up. so the cost to get an erection was 10 nude pictures, but now it costs 20 nude pictures. So in both cases, the value of the woman and the $ was cut in half. Desensitization is a form of inflation.
Women have the same energy in life as birds, streams, bubbles, clouds, bright colorful lizards, wild horses, ancient trees. These things are best admired from without yourself, for you experience them on a level that is greater than their material presence. When you have captured their material presence that value suddenly vanishes because it was all in your mind. That's not to say it being in your mind doesn't make it real, because after all, things like great stories you're reading or great ideas only exist in the mind but clearly influence your perspective on the world. Therefore these things ultimately are best appreciated and can be learned to be most enjoyed when you do not try to hold a grip on them, either physically through control or mentally through total understanding, and instead letting life flow around you in it's ultimate form.
yeah just watched the movie the last duel which shows this how women are treated in that era . That said besides sex. Your not seeing beyond that . There is love , spending your life with someone you care about and duplicating your genetics . Everybody loves sex but there is living that actual experience with someone . The way you talk about it "because society says so " makes it sound like you aren't interested in being with a woman at all. I hear you though society is not the reason why I do anything but I understand why it is this way to usher people in paths that they are inherently fulfilling for our biological purposes but it's not everything . I do it for myself not because society expects it. If your a winner sure you slide right into those paths with very little friction . If your a loser well you get hit over the head with a mallet
