I Have An Addiction To Camgirls Advice To get Sober

Try to remember that they are all versed in the art of "sex, lies and rinsing guys" and they couldn't care less if they leave you financially and morally bankrupt through feeding your addiction. They have a flair for performance, charisma and deception. It's how the earn their money. If you keep that in mind, it should go a long way in enabling you to cure your camgirl addiction.

 

Try not to judge or condemn yourself too much, instead focus on learning strategies. In the beginning you may need some kind of blocker, but don't rely on that long term - use the time to work on your mind towards the point where you don't need it. But for now if you can lock yourself out you can have some relief to begin to clear your head.

 

you should try to scheduke your days in a way that you do not have time to watch it, go for a walk next time you feel like watching or something. I have been where you are now and I know it is tough. just keep going at it and eventually you should find strategies that work!

 

I'm addicted to cam girls since 2014 and can't free myself from it. My biggest achievement is that I didn't spend money since ~end of 2020 and only visit the sites without an account or only with unregistered throw away accounts. You see I don't do very well, I hate how accessible those sites are.
Thanks guys for the tips here. Maybe I can contribute how I managed the money thing.

1. I had concerns that I was so careless to have an account on that site with my credit card info. I hope DSGVO etc. will solve this but in general the internet does not "forget" anything.
2. I switched to more anonymous ways of payment in form of crypto currencies and fortunately the last years the transaction costs raised and made it unusable.
3. I deleted and created new accounts so often over the years that I lost "connection" with the girls and was a nobody to them. They clearly didn't give a fuck about some unknown account without prove that they can earn money with it.
4. I deleted my insane collection of private show recordings. I hate the thought of how much time and money I would have to spend to get something like that back, it feels impossible and that is good so.

Basically the above points describe how my cam site past is kind of unrecoverable messed up. I accepted that this past is over and any attempt to build it up again would destroy the rest of my life.
Roaming still around on cam sites without being a paying member is depressing. The girls couldn't care less. I don't get why it is still so impossible for me to stay away. Next step is that I search for therapy.

 

Have you tried blocking these websites? That could be a good first step

 

I once told a cam girl that I was addicted and couldn't stop, she said that she could help me if I took her in private LOL.

Another one I remember I was talking with and tipping for like an hour but then my internet died. I was only gone for two minutes and then when I came back she messaged saying "hi bb, how are you today?"

Some of the girls on there might be out of this world hot but you'll never find happiness there, only misery.

 

Did you take her in private?

 

There's also some guy that was making fun of his daughter by dressing up and posing like her, I don't think she was a camgirl but was trying to get attention for sure.

 

Nah, I never went that far. Plus that particular girl didn't even attempt to hide that she was a total hustler. Some are better at selling the illusion than others.

 

Honestly I think you should do both. I find that blocking websites to be very effective

 

There's a lot of good advice in past threads about webcams. I'm totally stuck in same situation. Its sex mixed with emotional companionship, & I think even the visuals of sexy women in these bright little boxes is similar to gamblers staring at slot machine. I basically tried to intentionally move my addiction to normal porn just to stop throwing my money away. (Which is obviously not recommended just became a necessity for me). Good luck to you man. I find if I can make it 2 or 3 days without, that I'm a lot happier & my brain functions better & sleep better, so theres hope for me I think. But theres a lot of helpful people on here who have overcome this.