i am almost 22 years old virgin guy,i have never had a relashionship or even kissed a girl.My whole life i've been waiting for the one girl that i will get in a relashionship and have the first kiss and sex,the girl that i will love.Do you think i should keep this mentality or change and just go out and kiss and f the girls that are meh for experience and for fun?,should i wait for the girl that i will fall in love or this is just not as magical as i think?
Just my opinion, but I say don't put so much pressure on yourself to find "the one" right away. Odds are you may need to date several people to find the one. Dating and getting to know someone can be a growing experience for you. It'll help show you what you really want and don't want in a significant other. Would I be in a rush to find a girl to kiss and have sex with? No, just let things happen naturally over time.
I’ve thought like this before, and then I actually got the girl who I liked a lot. But then SHE stopped wanting to hang out with me haha So even if your intentions are in the right place, it doesn’t mean you will have the fairy tale ending even if you do temporarily get the girl you want Maybe I’m wrong though, but that’s just my experience so far in life
It’s ultimately your decision. If you do decide to have sex though, there are risks involved - pregnancy for example. Just be careful with whatever you decide to do I do think that having sex or kissing a girl, even if she isn’t perfect, is way better than PMO. Also, being with a real girl does help drive away PMO urges in my honest opinion But it’s your choice