Meeting with men but I'm str8

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Qzmp1, Jul 23, 2022.

  1. Qzmp1

    Qzmp1 Fapstronaut

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    I'm a str8 married man, that is addicted to porn.
    I watched humiliation vids, cuckold.... And started fantasizing about men with big packages.
    I have met with men and I really want to stop, but I can't manage to do it.
    I'm in an open relationship, but she doesn't know about that side of me.
    Any advice, anyone else have that problem?
     
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    Migliorare New Fapstronaut

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  3. Will_i_am

    Will_i_am New Fapstronaut

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    Hey, I know what you’re going through and I can assure you that the porn you are watching is affecting your sexual template. Typically, porn will progress into other types as we continue to watch more and more. You may have very slowly started to watch same sex / gay porn out of curiosity. This may be the reason you are now developing a same sex attraction (SSA). If you’d like to chat, let me know and we can set something up.
     
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  4. Alternate_universe

    Alternate_universe New Fapstronaut

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    I think it’s because your brain and needed to reach a new high, regular porn isn’t good enough anymore so your brain is searching for the next big rush. I’ve experienced this many time with trans women, even though I consider myself a straight guy who’s been with tons of women. I know all to well where you’re coming from and you are not alone
     
  5. You are not alone, this is more common than you think. It really does all come down to what porn does, it entices, then dominates, then enslaves, then warps, then destroys.
     
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  6. mrpractical

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    I guess:
    Physique
    Muscles
    Big private parts
    And being dominant
    Makes a few men addicted to those videos
     
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  8. Robindale

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    An interesting article.