Need advice with probably PIED (18 M)

So I need ur advice with my problem. I am 18 years old, and i used to masturbate to porn every day, i didn't even think about it as an addiction it was like a habit i would just do it when i didn't have anything to do even to the point when i wasn't craving it but i still did it out of a habit. I would masturbate to normal stuff do it quickly and forget about it. Didn't think there was any problem with that until recently.

I had one successful sexual intercourse although i dont remember it very well and it lasted pretty quick. It was a one time hook up and i didn't feel anything for that girl so i kinda forgot about it.

Now half a year later i fell in love like crazy and started a relationship tried to have sex 3 times and failed every time. First 2 times i thought it was anxiety cause i was nervous af and my heart was pounding like crazy cause i had the girl that im in love with in front of me naked and i didn't have any experience. But the third time i was already very comfortable with her and everything went smoothly i tried to insert like 4 times but every time i got soft the moment i tried to put it inside. It was very frustrating. I started checking internet and decided i have to stop PMO so I stopped for 12 days already.

My morning wood is there every day but its like almost not hard, and when im making out with my girl i get hard it feels like 100% but when i check it with hand its still pretty soft even though in my brain i feel crazy aroused. When I try to masturbate without porn just by touch i can get my erection to a only to like 50% and my penis glans is numb since i can remember.

So my main question is can this be a physical problem like tight pelvic floor or something with my hormones or is this a porn problem. I'm sorry that my post is so long and i hope someone will take the time to read it! I got an appointment to an urologist but as far as i know he cant say if I have tight pelvic floor muscles

 

Thank u! Just hit 14 days hard mode and i feel like I'm in a flatline for the last week cause my sex drive almost dissapeared and there are just glimpses of it and boners are even softer than they were before i quit pmo. But i hope that means I'm on the right path and means that there was a problem.

 

Vanilla

 

Yes, and my morning wood was also pretty strong. Now I'm on day 18 and in this crazy flatline no morning wood or erections for 3 days and depressed as fuck