I'm happily married, my wife is beautiful and loving, and we have a very active sex life together. We been married 7 years now, together for 10. We still lust after each other, and I have no desire to sleep with anybody else (as does she.) But I have an extremely high sex drive. She has a pretty high sex drive as well, we usually have intercourse once in the morning, and once a night, sometimes more on the weekends, but that usually just leads to her getting sore and needing a day or two to recover. I work from home, basically just answering emails. I have lots of free time throughout the day, I get notified through my phone when I get an email, so I can knock out some house hold chores between those... after that, its all free time, so I'll run on the treadmill or watch a movie or whatever... but I still got time to watch porn once or twice (or more) a day. I don't watch anything perverse, mainly guy on girl, or solo girls. I usually end up masturbating twice a day, for roughly 45-60 mins at a time. Sometimes though, it'll be 3-4 times a day. I never thought it was a much of a problem, because if I'm busy or have anything else I need to do, it doesn't bother me to skip a day or two without watching porn (usually don't watch it on the weekends when the wife is home, unless we watch it together.) However, I decided to see how only I can go without it, just for fun... and I never make it past Monday or Tuesday if there's nothing else to pressing to do. I'm starting to realize that I probably masturbate way too much, so I tried cutting it out all together. I made it from Friday until this morning, when I found myself watching porn and jerking off again (there wasn't much else to do.) I'm not super into games and not a real big movie buff, so what are you guys doing with your spare time. I have to close to the computer, so it's not feasible to leave the house. Anybody got any ideas as what can keep me busy?
Hanging out with friends and socializing is a really good thing I find. It allows me to be myself shoot the shit with the boys, and find some things to do. Never a dull moment with the boys. But that being said, when they talk about which girls they would rather be with or such I tune them out, or take a break from hanging out. Work is work, but damn does it make you feel blank when not working some times, those are the hardest times to deal with PMO. I hear though, I'm in the same boat, I love my partner but have been addicted for years and she is the only one I want but when I get the urge I become some kind of one minded animal just trying to get that nut. then afterwards feel horrible. I also try not to push her (to wanting to have sex) when I do want sex because even then It's not authentic. Plus waiting on her to make a move is better, but I have gone 3-4-5 days and it felt horrible. But yeah thats my advice
You can be busy and find time for porn. My suggestion is realize the porn is addicting, and one peek is too many , One of benefits of not doing porn it gives you more freedom of time to do positive things ! Good luck you can do this !
Business owner. About 5 years ago my 2 brother n laws and I started a business. We worked really hard for the first coupe years and literally sunk everything we had into it, like literally everything. It was very hands on and very draining. Over the last 2 years while many business suffered, we thrived as we make a product that promotes getting outdoors. We've been able to hire a real good crew and an awesome supervisor that takes care of most of the operation, now my role is mainly being available to answer any questions the supervisor has and to make sure they have the materials they need (which can sometimes be challenging, but we have great distributors.) I don't want to go into a lot of details, because our field isn't a large one...
