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Can someone related with this?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by The_beast, Dec 23, 2023.

  1. The_beast

    The_beast Fapstronaut

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    I am successful in keeping PMO away but one thing that always hinders me from life porn free life is wet dreams. I get wet dreams once a week and lives in constant fear of embarrassment if someone sees it.. i live in a hostel. How do you handle wet dreams. I don't want to masturbate but some wet dreams increase my sexual thoughts. Please share your thoughts
     
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  2. drac16

    drac16 Fapstronaut

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    I can relate to some extent. I suffer from what's known as 'morning wood'. It's a hassle to get up and having to wait 5 minutes before my boner wears off.
     
  3. The_beast

    The_beast Fapstronaut

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    Morning wood is different from what I mentioned here. I can talking about wet dreams
     
  4. WelcomeToReality

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    First off, let's get one thing straight: wet dreams are as natural as sneezing or blinking. They're not a sign of weakness or a lack of control. They're just your body's way of doing its thing, especially when you're on a journey away from PMO (Porn, Masturbation, Orgasm). It's like your brain running a system check while you're in sleep mode.

    Now, about the embarrassment part – living in a hostel, I get how the fear of someone finding out can make you anxious. But here's a thought: Would you be embarrassed if someone caught you snoring or talking in your sleep? Probably not, right? It's the same deal with wet dreams. They're a natural, involuntary bodily function. If anyone in your hostel is mature enough to tie their own shoelaces, they'll understand that.

    But hey, let's not ignore the part where these dreams stir up sexual thoughts. That's like the brain teasing you with a free sample at a grocery store – it's tempting, but you don't have to buy the whole pack. Acknowledge these thoughts without giving them more power than they deserve. Remember, they're just thoughts, not commands.
     
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  5. SuperFan

    SuperFan Fapstronaut

    I guess my question would be, who is looking at your underwear in a hostel? Unless you're parading your wet dream around and showing it to everyone, how are they even seeing it? If it happens in the middle of the night, by the time morning comes (hey oh!) it's probably dry anyway.

    I understand being fearful of someone noticing, but so far, has anyone even noticed? I think your fear of being discovered is probably far worse than any likelihood that it'll actually happen.
     
  6. AbelHimself

    AbelHimself Fapstronaut

    I keep a pair of thick boxers under my mattress so that I can put them on top of the jizzed ones at a moment's notice without losing much sleep.
     
  7. The_beast

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    What about the smell?
     
  8. SuperFan

    SuperFan Fapstronaut

    If your dried semen smells so much that other people can actually notice it, you should probably see a doctor.
     

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