Hey there, I'm happy to join and am excited to start my goal to be a fapstronaut. I've tried to stop a couple times but always lapse and it seems to only make things worse mentally and emotionally. Lots of guilt and sleepless nights. There are times where things are great but its like I tease myself and make it impossible to stop. I even have dreams that have me watching porn and then have a strong urge when I wake up feeling like its impossible to not fall back to it. But I know I can do it with some support and help! It's my first post so please guide me in the best way to go. Something that I also need is maybe a computer game or game on my phone to distract me to replace the habit. Any advice is welcome
Very cool thanks for the advice! I've been wanting to learn Spanish so that would be a nice goal to start. Any advice on where to learn Spanish?
You know what direction you want to go in. Don't give it up. Come up with a plan. Try something. If you fall down, try something different. Keep going. Keep facing your star. There are dozens of successful strategies you can find in this forum. What works for me: 1) Create a goal, something you can reach. Make a counter. Stay honest about it. 2) Cruise the forum every day. It is hit-and-miss, but you will find those you can trust and learn from. You can learn from the suffering as much as from the success. 3) Journal daily. Don't worry if no one responds. It is cheap therapy. 4) Keep a sense of humor as well as compassion. 5) Dream big. You are going to get a lot more than just kicking the porn habit. Best to you.
Thank you for the advice. Learning a new language seems to help a lot of people so I'll start there. Also just coming here for encouragement will be helpful I'm hoping. Right now the worst part is trying not to think about it but that sometimes makes it worse lol
Tu mejor apoyo son los que amas y te aman nunca te dejes vencer por nada ni por nadie tu mayor reto es vencerte a ti mismo adelante
