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Female and new to site

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Annislavender, Apr 16, 2014.

  1. Apr 16, 2014 #1
    Annislavender

    Annislavender Fapstronaut

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    Hi, I am female and deeply spiritual. I do not ever look at pornography so that is not a temptation for me. I have an issue with masturbation maybe a couple of times per month. May seem minor to many people, but the truth is that I feel crummy afterwards. It's not simply guilt; it's more of a sense that I am not created for this. It's like I feel I am objectifying myself and others and it just makes me feel lonely. I would like to stop, but feel too embarrassed to talk about it with anyone face to face. I believe God desires to help me but has also guided me to the idea that its so much better to open up and share than it is to keep this issue to myself.
    I am so relieved to find this website where I can actually be honest and type the word "masturbation" on the screen and know i can be honest here. At some point I would love to get an accountability partner, someone who believes in God and also is female would be ideal. Thanks for welcoming me!
     
    Annislavender, Apr 16, 2014
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  2. Apr 17, 2014 #2
    MSLogic

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    hey Anni S
    Welcome,
    I am new here too, and but I have been researching on addiction for a couple of months and discovered a lot,
    I personally think if you are "M"ing without any artificial images or weird fantasies, that is just normal and natural, And yes I do believe in GOD, I am saying this because I have been an addict for last eight years, so congratulation whatever you are planning can be achieved with minimal efforts believe me
    while you browse through stuff here I have couple of tips for you
    +try to find out a reason that makes you lonely person, there must be something missing try to rethink about your story , you growing up
    +add a counter to your threads,
    +try finding an activity, it may be cycling, very cheap almost everyone can afford it, try to sea places by cycle, you'll discover many things,
    +there must be something that's leading you to "M"ion , like I have discovered my self that I am suffering from "Nice guy syndrome" you can read about it too,
    +your goal must be wet dreams, and it will happen stay confident
     
    MSLogic, Apr 17, 2014
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  3. Apr 17, 2014 #3
    need2bchaste

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    Hi, Annislavender! Sounds like we have some things in common. I would masturbate to my imagination, not porn, although images and text can arouse me. I'm a woman, too. If you haven't yet, check out the Women forum section. Be assured that you're not the only woman going through this, and that you CAN BEAT THIS! :)
     
    need2bchaste, Apr 17, 2014
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  4. Apr 17, 2014 #4
    Anne-Dauphine

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    Heyyyyyy Anislavender! Huge welcome for you! I'm so glad to see you there!! :eek: I'm amazed at your mind set, I'm more than confident that you will overcome this. As need2bechaste said, please browse the Women section for more details! As you're a lady I would advice you to be particularly careful around your periods. Hormones make this time really harder, but at the end of the day it's just hormones and it doesn't reflect your mind, you just have to be a bit more stronger.

    Plus you're not alone girl, God's with you! You'll see, He's incredibly helpful. Stay strong, it's already in you, it's worth it, you're worth it! I'm the Women section moderator, please do not hesitate if you have a question or a remark :) Have a super nice day!!!
     
    Anne-Dauphine, Apr 17, 2014
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  5. Apr 17, 2014 #5
    Annislavender

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    Mslogic, need2bchaste, and cocorosie,

    Thank you SOOOO much for your warm welcomes! You have no idea how encouraged I feel already just reading your nice responses. I feel very blessed! I know now that I have found an answer to prayer by finding this site. So far, this site is just exactly what I have really needed. So excited to be here and to check out the women's forum. Thank you again for your kindness!
     
    Annislavender, Apr 17, 2014
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