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The real reason why I and many people M'd

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by MaxGoof, Aug 22, 2016.

  1. Aug 22, 2016 #1
    MaxGoof

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    Because there wasn't pretty much anything to do.
    I don't think I did it for dopamine addiction, I'm doing perfectly fine without it, but only now that I want do do something with my life.
    We were forced, directly or indirectly, by a society that wants us tame and empty.
    But the simple fact that you want to be able to do whatever you want with your life makes you free.
    There is no "Matrix" or stuff like that, simply our brain was put into a cage which is fairly easy to break, but only if you have the right stimulation.
    Remember, you can do everything. Always.
     
    MaxGoof, Aug 22, 2016
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  2. Aug 22, 2016 #2
    Ikindaknew

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    I think the main reason I M'd a lot is that we men have it external, and we see it since we are child and play with it even before we know its not only to go pee. Then, once you discover that you can have some fun with it, you have at it like there is no tomorrow.
     
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  3. Aug 22, 2016 #3
    MaxGoof

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    Well lol pretty accurate but this is not what I was exactly talking about xD
     
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  4. Aug 22, 2016 #4
    spartanroma2800

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    Escape from reality..... Basically.
     
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  5. Aug 23, 2016 #5
    Ikindaknew

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    There is definitely an escape from reality when you fap instead of having real sex, provided you are in a position to have it. Then with porn, it turns into an abstract of reality..and a chance to die alone...like VR :eek:
     
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  6. Aug 24, 2016 #6
    Lone_Wolf

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    The escape from reality is what resonates with me about it. I get out in the world, hate the assholes out there, and then retreat into my fantasy life of edging while watching porn.
    Regardless, I need to stop this crap and soldier on. World be damned.
     
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  7. Aug 25, 2016 #7
    TheFutureMe

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    It's a funny and sad thing at the same time, that we all discovered how to M by ourselves and promptly went in superstimulation. The paradox of the sexual stimulation being one of the most natural thing there is (we're fucking WIRED for it) taht we willfully turn it into an escape from reality, a shelter against anxiety, a well of relief, an oasis where we come in time of need, without realizing that it slowly changes how we view and interact with the world, comdemning us to stay in that shelter, dive in the well and recluse in the oasis... against our will.

    The world is there and we're part of it, have always been, being addicted or not. It's just who we want to be now that we know something can be done for our little issue :)
     
    TheFutureMe, Aug 25, 2016
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