HI, This is BDK from Spain! :D

Hi, it's really great to have you here!
Congratulations on 5 days that's fantastic.

 

Bienvenido a NoFap en Español @BDK_ acá estamos para ayudarnos en nuestro idioma.
Tenemos un foro en español en el siguiente link:
https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/nofap-en-español.50547/page-33#post-699761


Una de las cosas mas útiles para el reboot es tratar de entender que es lo que te dispara los urges, esto te va a permitir estar atento y tratar de hacerlos desaparecer apenas notes los primeros síntomas de que te están viniendo.
Te recomiendo crear un "Emergency Toolbox", con escritos y posts que te sirvan para leer y poder "reaccionar" cuando empieces a sentir urges de PMO. Tienes que tenerlo a mano, ya sea en tu celular o computadora.Puedes escribir los motivos por lo cuales quieres cambiar, los estragos que esta causando en tu vida, etc. También pueden ser videos inspiracionales.
En el siguiente post comparto contigo las cosas que fui juntando en mi Emergency Toolbox, me ayudaron muchísimo los primeros meses. Están en ingles, espero que te sirvan (siempre puedes usar Google Translate si te resulta mas fácil)
https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.p...y-first-320-days-of-reboot.62938/#post-473978

También escribí en este otro post algunos tips que pueden ayudarte a comenzar el reboot:

http://NoFap.com/forum/index.php?threads/tips-that-helped-me-to-start-my-reboot.46617/#post-330318
Puedes ver algunos videos interesantes que fui recolectando que pueden inspirarte, sobre todo el de "Your brain on porn" y los Ted Talks de Ran Gavrielli en Jaffa y de Gary Wilson en Glasgow son fundamentales para que los veas varias veces.

http://nofap.com/forum/index.php?th...t-help-me-a-lot-during-my-reboot.39774/page-2
También te sugiero que leas el libro "Breaking the Cycle" de George Collins, te va a dar muchas técnicas para enfrentar la adicción al porno.
Por ultimo, te recomiendo que tomes el curso de NoFap Academy si puedes pagarlo. El curso es muy bueno, pero lo mejor son los video calls de los miércoles con @alexander ( el creador de NoFap y NoFAp Academy) y Mark Queppet, donde conversar con ellos, pedirles consejos y escuchar las historias y las preguntas de otros Fapstronautas.
También tenemos un grupo de Hangouts para poder conversar mas ágilmente y buscar ayuda cuando tenemos un urge. Si quieres participar puedes mandarme un mensaje en privado asi te agrego al grupo.

Espero que algo de esto te sirva para superar la adicción al PMO
Fercho


El Viernes, 19 de agosto, 2016 16:43:19, ferchu l <[email protected]> escribió:


It is a big step if you can understand what is triggering your urges, because this will allow you to be awake and kill those urges as soon as they appear.

I recommend you to create your own "Emergency Toolbox" with readings that can be handy to read when you start feeling urges to screw up.
I can share this post with you with my own Emergency Toolbox, it helped me a lot during the first few months, i had them in my cell and read them every time I started falling down:

https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.p...y-first-320-days-of-reboot.62938/#post-473978

I wrote some tips in this post that perhaps will help you too:

http://NoFap.com/forum/index.php?threads/tips-that-helped-me-to-start-my-reboot.46617/#post-330318
You can watch some interesting videos which are also very helpful in this post:
http://nofap.com/forum/index.php?th...t-help-me-a-lot-during-my-reboot.39774/page-2

I also suggest you to read "Breaking the Cycle" by George Collins, it is a must-read if you are serious about getting rid of this addiction.

Last but not least, I would strongly recommend you to take the NoFap Academy course if you can afford it. The course is great but the best value are the weekly video calls with @alexander (the creator of NoFap and NoFap Academy) and Mark Queppet, where you can chat with them in real life and listen to other guys's stories and problems too.

I hope that all this helps you to fight this shitty addiction.
Let's keep on fighting

Fercho

 

Welcome to the NoFap community. I enjoyed the Camino de Santiago a few years ago, ,
Here are some strategies that may be helpful:

• Get an accountability partner here.
• Start a journal here, select your age group and Post New Thread.
• It's important to replace the bad habit of PMO with a good habit. Some suggestions: Read articles in a field you are interested in. Learn time management. Learn about self confidence and motivation. Take online courses. Learn about self confidence and motivation. Read a self help book. Go out and socialize.
• It's also important to be strong physically: Eat well. Drink about 2 liters of water per day. Exercise for 30 minutes each day. Get at least 6-7 hours of sleep.
• Many have found meditation to be helpful--it can take the place of PMO time and help your physical, psychological and spiritual health. Start with 5 minutes, gradually increase to 20 minutes, once or better twice a day.

 

Welcome to NoFap where, as you have seen, you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and not judge you.

What are your current strategies for combating the enemy called PMO?

 

Check out In Case You Didn't Know for strategies and tips to help you along your journey.