Did porn make you feel inadequate?

It's the other way around, I'm afraid: our feelings of inadequacy lead us to porn, which makes us feel even worse about ourselves. And if that's not the perfect set-up for defeat, I don't know what is. Just know you aren't defined by this behaviour, and do what you can to disrupt the cycle. Good luck. Keep fighting.

 

No, no issues with size comparisons

I know I'm above average both in the context of length and particularly girth, and I thought the first few times girls I've been with told me so, that were talking crap when they said I was big - then old Captain Winky had trouble pushing his way into the sugar walls

Regardless of what I see in porn, I know that in most cases chicks I'm with will have no trouble whatsoever achieving orgasm from vaginal sex

 

Unfortunately, this is the case with many young men, and women as well. Porn gives a distorted reality and fills young people full of misconceptions. Not only is penis size misrepresented, but also performance, context, womanly dimensions, and as you alluded to, even race.

I'm in the above average size category so porn never really was one to make me insecure. But it did intrigue me as to the actual preferences of the female pornstars. I would often find YT interviews of pornstars and although there was a divide between "size doesn't matter" and "the bigger the better", what was really telling was listening to the women that were retired. They seemed much more honest in their answers and the reality of the porn business. They spoke of the huge guys actually making them sore, getting them in positions they hated, and how they were just catering to a certain audience. They spoke of the interracial thing. They made it clear that they give the impression of race being important, when in reality they're telling that niche audience what they want to hear in order to make money.

This kind of deception on the outside adds to the already harmful damage porn does to the brain.

 

As a fellow black and one altho who doesn't even have any honest opinion as I haven't been with a normal woman, size actually has no matte whatsoever according to those interviews on YT that I saw as well. Listen to these guys man, inparticular this one:

All those YT interviews are just crap they say in order to make some more money and get more people to watch their scenes. Don't fall for it. AON, with all respect to other races, its nice to see another black male on here as well. I'm with you man, push on.