Hey everyone, So the main reason im on this site is to remove my foot fetish video habits and somewhat try to reduce the fetish urge and turn on in my brain and be turned on to more normal parts. Although is it possible to somewhat completely remove it? This is not a porn induced fetish btw.. I had it since I was a child but I think it got strengthened with porn use.
I'm the same way! My thoughts (to myself) are: - Do the reboot, get dopamine and pathways back to default - See if the fetish is still there - If it is, no worries, accept it. Everyone knows about mine. All my exes, my friends, my workmates, my sister, my mother, it's out in the open which makes for great joke material. - If I see it having a negative effect on anything at all, after the reboot (therefore making it not about porn and dopamine etc.), think about it then.
Bro I had a foot fetish since I was a child too & as I grew older & YouTube came around I started to watch candid shoeplay sometimes I would go to the library & record women shoeplaying! I like women to rub they feet in my face I like to smell their feet I like to smell their shoes! I think I will always be this way because I've always been this way as a child so your not alone bro!
I agree with @slickshoes. Reboot yourself to make this as benign in your sex life as possible. If it continues to be something that prevents you from having fulfilling sex, you can seek help or therapy and sometimes that can help alleviate the hold it has on you. But if you're able to function fine sexually, it might not be worth the trouble of trying to eliminate something that has become part of you.
I agree with you @TheLoneDanger Im 38 & I have had my foot fetish since I was a kid I'm always going to have that fetish! I don't think that me having a foot fetish was effecting me sexually because I always had good sex for years with it! My problems came when I started watching porn excessively that's when I started to have erectile problems that's why I decided to stop watching porn but I will always have my foot fetish that's not going to change!