I joined to learn how to support him. He has decided to quit, but we are having problems with impotence. So I decided to do some research and it led me here.
Go to a Website called YourBrainOnPorn.Com.It will give you a lot of good info on everything you need to know.You will be a blessing to him because he can reboot from porn while having sex and that's a plus.That will train his brain to want the real thing more than he wants the fake world of porn.It's all about trusting process but please don't give up.I'm on Day 39 and I wish I had a woman to help me along the way but I don't,lol.I'm starting to see signs of hope so I know my reboot is working.Stick with it and good luck!
Welcome to the forum. We have two folders that might be of interest to you. The 'Rebooting in a Relationship' folder talks about the problems this addiction plays in established relationships. And the subfolder 'Partner Support' is relatively new and contains questions and stories from women who have an SO who has a porn addiction. There is also a private support group for SO's which can be found here. There is a body of knowledge for couples going through recovery together. Not only does the addict need support but the SO also needs support. Only when both receive the help they need can the relationship heal and improve. Please post your story along with any questions in the 'Partner Support' folder and we'd be glad to share with you what we've learned along the way. I hope you find the support, information, and advice you need to heal your relationship.
Welcome to the forum. It is awesome you are fighting this with your boyfriend. He is lucky to have you!
You may want to have him join NoFap if he hasn't joined already. As wonderful as you are to help him and stick with him, this is his issue and he has to put the effort in to work on him.