Hello guys, I have 22 years and Ive seen porn since my 15-16 In think. I consider myself as a normal guy. I completed school and Im finishing university in one year. I go out with friends, play videogames, and write fiction stuff. I do my homework and projects. Porn does not interfere in my life (for example, leaving all my responsabilities to just going and watching it) My problem is that every night, before going to bed, I fap myself. Is like an habit. Every single night I open a porn site etc and do it one time. And im scared If this little habit comes and ruin my future sexual relations. The reason of me writing this is because Im starting to get excited with porn only. Im virgin, I didnt have a sexual encounter with a girl before, but I try of thinking about sex without porn, and nothing happens. And I dont want that happening to me in a real sexual encounter. Not able to get an erection without porn. This is something that can be resolved? If I stop watching it, can I return to normal? Or this is a permanent problem? I just feel alone. Like I said, I didnt have a sexual encounter before.
Sounds like you might have PIED. (Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction). What porn use does is that you re-wired your sexuality to only get turned on by the pixelated images on a computer screen; it gets to the point where real life sex with a woman becomes impossible because you've conditioned yourself to the artificial stimuli that is porno. Best thing to do is go hardmode, no PMO for 90 days, maybe longer if your condition still doesn't improve.
Yes, IF a person does the work and takes recovery seriously. Someone who just keeps relapsing and relapsing and doesn't get tough with themselves will not get the best results.
You must break the habit of fapping every night. You are already suffering from it but it could get worse. And be prepared, your first sexual experience might be very different from what you think . It won't be nothing like porn
If your brain is used to porn, a real girl won't be as exciting . That's also the reason why you might get a boner when looking at porn and not with a girl. And if you keep going on like this, you are going to look for " stronger " porn because your brain will eventually get used to the type of porn you're watching atm. Some people start with soft porn and end of watching harder stuff.
I see. Quick question: I have to avoid masturbating with porn or masturbating at all? Fortunately, I was with the normal porn. I hope this can be resolved.
Yes you can get back to normal. Stop watching porn and wacking and let your brain rewire so that you get aroused by other things and not just porn.
