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End of challenge - what next?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by madmax1, Jul 10, 2014.

  1. madmax1

    madmax1 Fapstronaut

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    Guys

    I am on day 63 of a 100 day no pmo challenge. I need to start planning on what to do when I reach my end date, which I know I should achieve at this stage. Otherwise I could see myself at risk of binging badly.

    Should I reward myself with an M which I would like? What do others do? I need to plan now to maintain full control.

    Thanks.
     
  2. terminator1

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    If you have not done M you should just stay away from it. It will only lead you back to a place of addiction which you have worked so hard to break free of. I know it sounds wrong but to M you need to be lustful which is the true root of the problem and you have to be thinking of graphic sexual images to get off.

    I would say go to cold stone and get some ice cream :eek:
     
  3. mijereah

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    dude just keep pressing on. make it a challenge to go 356 days NO PMO. I don't see why you would want to even consider M. What does that say about you and what you have accomplished??
     
  4. ankurkool17

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    If you want to reward yourself, I would say no Fapping but yes, Go for sex. If you have a gf, or you can find one, do it with her otherwise get paid sex. It ain't a bad thing to fuck a hooker. BE A MAN. NOT A CHUMP

    Good luck.
     
  5. madmax1

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    Thanks for the advice everyone. Think I will give the hooker a miss though, lol. I have decided to immediately start another 50 day challenge.
     
    Last edited: Jul 14, 2014
  6. stygian

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    Your post is incredibly important because it illustrates several things about you.

    First of all it shows you are not free of the addiction. The very fact that you are thinking about M once the challenge is over demonstrates its hold on you. You are having thoughts about it. You don't want to give it up.

    The fact that you ask "what's next?" shows that you do not understand the natural progression of yourself during this challenge. Once you "complete" the challenge (which may or may not be at 100 days), you will not need to ask what is next because you will already have the answer.
     
  7. Erboinq

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    NoFap never ends. After 100 days, go for 200. Then 500. Then 1,000. Then 10,000. Then die a happy death having lived a wonderful meaningful life without PMO.
     
  8. Emerge

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    I think MO can obviously be a perfectly healthy thing as long as it doesn't have a hold over you. But depending on how it affects your life you may want to continue to abstain and use the sexual tension as a motivation to go out and meet real women. I guess it is really up to you. I am only 20 days in and I am already planning what I will do after day 100. It's safe to say I will be concentrating on real women. Whether or not I start to MO again is up in the air. I think the most important thing is to give up the Porn for good.
     
  9. mijereah

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    hahahaha so true!!
     

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