i'm having this thought, like if my reboot is stuck. After 50 days hard mode i could have sex for all the time i desired to, now i can barely last 1 minute. That's something wrong.
How often do you have it? Penis will go dead if keep having it. It needs some time to go back to normal. You can't have orgasms as soon as you have emptied it all out for several days.
when i first started seeing this girls we used to meet like to times a week and we used to have sex between 5 and 7 times. Now i'm trying to reduce it to 2-3 per week, but isn't easy to explain her why
Once you keep having it for often and for a number of days, a recovery phase is needed before you can have sex again. Just go with the nature and be careful with the chaser which can make you crave porn and masturbation.
I don't get it... isn't the whole point to rewire to real women? Why would sex damage progress instead of accelerating it...?
It's not that sex is bad, the theory is if you orgasm too many times before being fully healed it stops or reverses progress. I can relate to this. Figuring out what your orgasm limits are comes from trial and error. But a good rule of thumb is no more than 1 O per week after being fully rebooted.
I'm going about a 5 days between sexual encounters. I'm still seeing progress. I may switch up back to hard mode in December, though, at least for a bit.
i'm not worried about chaser effect, i'm not going to relapse for the moment. i'm only worried about my sexual performances witch i hope to improve soon
What's up with 216 days? seems like so many (I just celebrated my 10 day anniversary on my very first reboot ) Are you still rebooting? flatlining? Whats up?
Hello, i'm pretty sad about how my rebooting is going. After having the best time of last 4 years around day 80-150 now i'm stuck. I did a lot of great things in this days witch seems impossible before like a new job, a girlfriend and others. Now i'm going to loose my job soon because of my low energy level and i'm also scared to ruin everything with my girl because i can't have enjoyable sex anymore, so my life is changing again and i feel bad about it, and some old fears i've experienced in the past are coming back to me. By the way i'm not even thinking about relapsing
life is ups and downs isn't it? can't go up all the time. you might want to look at other causes of your problems at this point, I believe 216 days is plenty to reboot, and now that you have the gains from it, it's time to solve other unrelated issues maybe? just a thought...
it's a good idea man, i'll keep it in mind. I don't know how to act but everything is better than masturbate to avoid problems
Hey man I just started having sex again from last Tuesday. I found that if I orgasm too much / too often, I can't last as long. If I abstain from all sexual activity I can last easy 10 mins. But before I started my reboot and was watching porn, I could have sex for 30 mins. I'm still in flatline from 2 weeks after quitting porn. It's now been almost 4 months without porn, but at least now I can have real sex finally.
Orgasms during reboot = Strong chaser effect + slows down recovery because orgasms are a part of a problem when it comes to PMO addiction. Sex from orgasms are fine but your brain must be rewired before you have frequent orgasms during sex.
I guess you will need more time for your brain to rewire. I am not sure how often you have sex but you can't sustain erections everyday if you have sex several times each day.