Hi guys, Been fapping since 10 years ago... So I have over the years increased porn use - TV shows, magazines, now high-speed internet porn. Sadly, I got into the habit of getting erotic massages... Had about 10 or 15. Lost about 3000. I believe I have lost £7000 including porn, magazines etc. I look forward to getting a real girlfriend who will satisfy me emotionally/physically. So I have had the problem of the erotic massages. I initially get aroused and then may have a thought of going. I then search/contact the provider. I often deliberate about going or not to. Then suddenly my emotional part of the brain takes over and I end up going. Last time I went, I entered the premises and was excited seeing the girl. Got undressed/showered. She massaged me and I often come before I wish to Premature Ejaculation - probably due to porn. I am trying to convince myself that the "erotic massage" is basically a type of pornography - paying for a girl to make me come. Can you convince me. Do you have any suggestions to quit these for good?? Last time i tried to bargain on the price - just by £5 and she said no discounts. If she loved me truly she wouldnt say this.... Its a random girl, i'll probably never see again. Same dopamine pathways... Porn (searching internet) Escorts' hand (is the masturbation) and eventually Orgasm. Sometimes I have orgasmed halfway through the sessions and have after that completely lost interest. Its the same like closing the porn webpage once you have comed. Guys there -any suggestions/ similar experiences??? I'm really looking forward to finding my own girlfriend one day... Thanks
bump!, any ideas guys? I noted some adverts for erectile dysfunction - and thought to myself - this is due to the porn industry.
As you wrote, you are looking for a girlfriend and if you find her, that is the solution. Same with me, I have my eyes open for a girlfriend and would be honest and faithful to her. That´s not terribly much. For example when someone smokes only for 5 bucks a day and does so for lets say 60 years, he pays 109,500 only for smoking (expensive cigars would be much more). Others have even more expensive drinking habits, drugs, gambling addiction, findom fetish etc. You can get a lot of massages for 109,500. Why should a random girl you want to never see again love you? Massaging is her job, it´s a bit like you expect the hairdresser to be in love because she massaged your head while washing your hair. It´s possible it happens, sometimes a hooker may marry her freer, but in your case it´s a random girl you try to bargain for 5bucks. We ultimately want a good girlfriend. Massages can help to get used a bit to the touch and intimacy to girls, so that you are not too awkward when you have to escalate to get a girlfriend. If it makes you a bit relaxed towards girls so that you have more confidence, it may not be wasted money. If it hurts you emotionally, that the escorts don´t love you, then probably it´s not the right thing for you.
Just think about how much she loves her job. She gets to jerk off strange men and then clean their jizz up.
You waste money on someone who doesn't love you. You cum, and an hour later you want to cum again. There's no end to it, its not worth it. Invest in your future, not your present.
amen to that, it was not good enough, so back to the old masturbation, then why go in the first place!!
let me rephrase that, I would stop going to massages for ever. just release your self if you need to.