Hey Hotpotts, I never said that PMO isn't cheating. I am not sure where you are getting that from. Unless, you are referring to this sentence, If that is the case, this also refers to the person that he PMO'd while he was with. This was intended to be aimed at both of them. I apologize if this wasn't made clear from the beginning. I hope this helps.
Homeboy over here has spent too much time reading Rollo Tomassi’s “logical” rationality for selfishness. Rollo is an intelligent clown. Don’t imitate a clown. Also don’t presume at 22 years old that you know anything at all. Finally, until you realize that sleeping with tons of women is the exact same empty vanity as watching porn, you wont be able to find happiness or fulfillment. The hole in your heart will still be there, and one woman at a time, you will give more of yourself away and become cold and dark. Ive watched it happen to real people that I care about.
It is not pointless... Yes you have betrayed each other... Women cheat because their emotional needs are not being met... Therapy is the way to go if you want to make this work.. I wish you well x