I do not currently have a girlfriend because I think that the current relationships are very emotionally damaged or maybe they are my personal relationships, I am a university student I spend my time between studying, eating, books and PMO. I have been trying to postpone masturbation basically due to the fact that I feel that it has damaged my way of interrelating with the ladies mainly added to the fact that I do not have roommates either. My way of seeing them has changed to the point of thinking that they are all like pornography shows it, I've been trying to leave the PMO for a few weeks, achieve some progress but it's not the first time I try to leave it I hope that through this blog and their support can amend these false ideas about them, the truth this also demotivates a little because I feel it was a vice that makes me lose my will, at some point I thought about meeting a young lady to stop practicing the PMO but I do not think it is appropriate, first I must leave the vice
Hi @24mamm96, It's a good thing you are aware of your problem while being in college. I wasted my college years because of this addiction. It's a good idea to read the resources that nofap has at your disposal, I would start with the Getting started guide. https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/new-users-list-of-rebooting-resources.50878/ Once you undesrtand your problem better, it would be easier for you to set your goals. Welcome to this community, you are in the right place.
Hey @24mamm96 , I'm just a normal ordinary member. No moderator super powers and no special insite. I share my ESH (Experience, Strength and Hope) of what works for me. Just another warm welcome and a heart felt hello. This community has helped me so much. What worked for me was "working" it. It took hard work for me to complete a hard reboot (No pmo) for 120 days, then move into a Sex Positive mode. First, reading the literature published by NoFap itself along with reading journals. Then, doing the work. Writing in my journal and replying to introductions and other's journals. Finally, but not least, getting involved with the fellowship. I found it on the forums, but also in people's profiles. The forums tend to be longer posts, where the profiles tend to be more "conversational". That is what has worked for me. I like to remind myself that this community was here waiting for me with the lights on when I arrived. Now, I have to do my best to be there when someone comes to the community. --> L