So there is this girl we study together in university. Yesterday she stood me up on a date stating she won't be able to come because she's on a meeting about a job that she was informed to go on the same day. Should I offer to make another date with her or should I look for other girls? Please respond if you are reading this. Don't just view without sharing your views. I'll appreciate any advice.
It depends. Was you already at the location waiting for her, and then she told you she wasn’t coming? Or did she let you know beforehand that she wouldn’t be able to make it. Is she let you know ahead of time, then that’s a good sign. If she didn’t tell you until it was too late, then that shows a lack of interest on her part and if she’s being rude now, don’t expect it to improve. If however she genuinely did have a meeting, that’s not her fault, of course she is going to prioritise a potential job over a date. If this is the case, then ask her out again. If you ask again and she gives you another excuse, you can be sure that she isn’t interested. Get another girl.
Hello friend,understand that the she was busy with the meeting.I dont know why she told you go on a date with her on the day where she had a meeting to attend.Ask her that why did not she inform you earlier that she had this meeting and that you were waiting for her.And dont immediately start looking for a new girl.Give time for cherishing a new relationship,be patient.Share your experience with her,share your thoughts and also receive the same from her,get to know each other well,be good friends to each other.I guess these are the backbone of a relationship and please give time for everything enjoy those little moments.Be Happy☺
If she told you in advance she couldn't come because of the job interview, then she didn't "stand you up" at all. Being stood up is where you're literally at the bar waiting, and she never arrives. Get in touch with her to set a new date, and ask her how the interview went.
Why are you offering another day IF SHE WAS REALLY INTERESTED SHE WOULD OFFER ANOTHER TIME AND PLACE. Look for other girls, I have been down this road many times if she was really interested SHE would offer another time since she was the one that broke the date ,in the mean time VALUE YOUR TIME MOVE ON
You should NOT make another date for her and should NOT even think about texting her again! It was her choice to cancel and re-schedule if she wants another date. Keep your dignity and self-respect and never text her again! If she wants she will find you. Every attempt to "get" a woman to like you, is making you look more weak and needy.