As the title of the post says, I am on NoFap (not using porn, no sexual images). I guess two weeks ago I got a wet dream in which I was penetrating a girl and just on the touch it ejaculated. Yesterday night, I got another wet dream. In this wet dream I was watching youtube and saw something sexual and it ejaculated again. I think my brain still links sex with porn. What should I do?
Hey man personally for me I know what you mean, do you feel a decrease in these thoughts though? Just keep going, it's all progress! I think it's important for us to accept that sexual thoughts won't go away and can't be suppressed, but the longer we keep going without porn and compulsive masturbation, the less these negative thoughts will occur.
Yes, the thoughts go away and then comes back. I do accept that sexual thoughts won't go away and I tend to avoid them. My semester holidays has started a week ago, I am free most of the time. Maybe that's what triggering these thoughts.
Do you M? Some guys take a full 2 years to properly recover. You're on very solid ground, do not mess this up by going back to porn. Try to find a partner to start rewiring with. If you have too much free time, write some lofty goals down and get at them everyday.
Hey man, I’ve the same problem and have tried to begin with “NoA” ever heard of it ? This man introduce me to it and it a similarly to the NoPMO but more focus on your head - Check it out and give it a go. https://yourbrainrebalanced.com/https://yourbrainrebalanced.com/for...ousal-method-celibacy-of-body-and-mind.14525//index.php?threads/the-no-arousal-method-celibacy-of-body-and-mind.14525/ Best of luck. Cjas
Unknowingly I was practicing "NoA" in the starting months. I still start looking somewhere else whenever a kissing scene or similar appears. I think the last wet dream was because of the prank videos that I am watching these days and yesterday night there was a beautiful girl on the TV that I couldn't stop watching so, I went to my room. Time to start "NoA" again, last time when I was doing it as an Atheist. Now, I will do it as a theist. Thank you, man!
No no, I don't masturbate and I am not even thinking about to start watching porn again. You're somewhat right, I also feel like finding a partner but, life is so busy in college time and there is no mature girl around. I am free these days that is why these feelings have started appearing. I have written some goals and I have already started working on them.
I’m glad that I can be at help and please stay toned if you need more help I mean like for me (and everybody else in here I suppose) appreciate all the help that a man or women can get and are willing to give.