Hey man it’s gonna be alright we all know how you felt but you just gotta keep fighting through don’t give up.
it probably stole your children from you. children that would have been your reason for living, stolen from you before you could know it. 'the power mad freaks who are ruling the earth will show how little they think you're worth with animal lust, they'll destroy your life and slice your world to bits like a knife"--Judas Priest, Heads are gonna roll
it's something that keeps trying to get to you, and the truth of it is, its trying to slowly drain you of life. Sty strong, and find healthy substitutes for it. I am starting fresh after relapsing hard, and I'm so amazed to see just how it speaks to you, and puts you back in a bad place, where it wants you to belong. It will look for any weaknesses in you and your life, and tell you that it's your friend, and wants to help, but don't be fooled. The greatest trick the devil has played on humanity is convincing people it doesn't exists in various forms. Stay strong, and keep it at bay. It will get easier.
Damn this hit me deep, very true, you have to stay as strong as possible, this is not an impossible task, it is something anyone can do. For sure find a substitute and keep yourself busy and even talk to yourself in the mirror, 'you can do this!'
You may relapse a thousand times, but if you have the will to stand up and reboot NoFap, you will certainly have no trouble. A little tips from someone that did relapse recently, keep checking on this forum and try to help others. It will definitely help you in the long run. I relapse because I stop checking nofap forum for a day or two lol
Appreciate the support, brothers. I gone 80 days clean before. I know it gets easier and definitely loses its effect on you. It's just these lengthy relapses that damn suck, man. Procrastination and what have ya. Because let's not forget how much of discipline it takes especially at the beginning and at all times, I mean look how close I was to 90 days which was the initial goal and I fell. I learned it's not really about the number of days. Not entirely at least.
we're never safe from relapse, we will always be PMO addicts, and we must always recognize that, this is not a temporary adventure, but a lifestyle change if we want to change for the better. Relapse is part of recovery and the threat of it is always a part of sobriety. We must always remain vigilant. Stay strong bromigos, remember, urges pass in time. Shame stays with you.
age is important. i find that i relate more to posts by people closer to my age. closer life experience and all that.
With 16 everybody faps but when normal sexuality comes IT gets LEss. Freud advocated nofap for all His career except the Last year for His Patients. We resist. But why and to what avail we have to find Out With 20 You have lost nothing by fapping. But Like me surpassing 30 I was afraid that I have to change something in my Life.