I wake up every day consciously & subconsciously grateful that I don’t need to M, that I’m not a slave to my body and its old ways, because let’s be real, I used to do that every day, multiple times a day, for YEARS. And why not, right? It feels good. But precisely, why not...because I couldn’t concentrate The foundation of my previous relationship was weak (lust is a poor foundation/reason to stay together) Wasted a lot of time Wasn’t confident But now, I knowwww I’m strong, because it takes a lot to beat addiction. Guys/gals, keep fighting! Cuz it’s so worth it - we can get out of this & Be confident Have better relationships Be more productive Sure, there are days where I pause to fantasize, but I try not to linger cuz I’m wasting time & I used to literally wrap my legs in blankets to not tempt myself w them open lmao but now I don’t need to & that’s for me, great progress. And I to reset so many times, and it was discouraging, but with accountability to yourself from others & encouraging others, you can do it! And once you do, why look back - you’re more than your addiction
Inspiring. Thanks for showing it can be done. But i noticed you said no PM, so did you have a boyfriend during this time?
Man that is absolutely incredible. I can't wait to be on your level. It is great to see someone who has crossed the 400 day mark. That's over a year already! Make us proud!
Yeah, I have a bf - we’ve been together almost 2.5 years now. But YES, I did go fulll hard mode (no PMO) for like 90 or 100+ days. I didn’t want to O before 90 days & wasn’t sure if I wanted to after since I learned I could live without that goodness. But I went w the flow & if it happened, it happened. I DONT O often still now because we’re both pretty busy, but it’s bittersweet - good cuz I dont feel the chaser effect too often. I’d say every some MONTHS
Thanks for the support - I’m here to encourage you, too. Love the username #hiddenleaf #BELIEVEIT #nevergobackonyourword #thatsmyninjaway
NEVER thought I’d be where I am today, but it’s possible. Believe me when I say, the ppl on here inspire me; it really helped me to commit this time around - I’m not the only one struggling w this You go, dude!
Fight the good fight. We may have to fight battles to win the war. You can do it; I believe in you. You deserve the freedom.
That's a huge achievement right there, @Miss Winnie ! Thank you for being an inspiration for me and everybody here. I'm sure we all will be in that spot, one day, It's possible.