Sht.. So, day 27 without Orgasm and masturbation.. Hooray! I'm feeling wonderful today, with a lot of energy and inner peace (as always) but lately theres something that really bothers me and that's my penis. I feel like since I started participating in Nofap my penis became to be a useless piece of meat. I'm currently not in a relationship (even though I've been approaching some girls during this period but with no luck), I don't have sex life at all and I always end up alone surrounded with girls who are already in an active relationship. I talk to them, we laugh, we have a great time together, we drink, sometimes we hug but that's it. I always end up to be the "male friend", it never gets to something romantic. (Sadly most of the girls who I'm talking to have boyfriends, I'm 24). I hate this reality. I've been wondering to go back to masturbation (once-twice a week) I got nothing to lose anyway. (I really feel great besides the fact that I'm single which is killing me) At least I'll manage "to pleasure" myself somehow and meanwhile to keep searching for a girlfriend. What are your opinions?
Totally understand your problem, I had the same after a month or so, didn't end up well as I just got back into the cycle of masturbating almost every day and the urge coming back again and again.
That's a dangerous slope bro. I wouldn't recommend intervals. Once you say it's ok to go once a week it will just escalate to twice a week and so on. I have tried the once a week thing. Always end up binging. In regards to the girls, maybe you should change your approach. You seem to be trying to inch your way into girls lives befriending them. Doing this can work don't get me wrong, but what often happens is they come to see you as a friend. Perhaps you should go bold and just ask a cute girls for their contacts. This method takes way more balls and will result in more rejections, but they will know your intimate intentions from the outset for when you do succeed.
Useless piece of meat? I find my penis very handy for aiming my pee in the urinal, so I can pee standing up. It's up to you what you do with your penis. Make your decision based on what is best for you.
I'm seriously trying to figure out right now with myself if I really need Nofap in my life or not. I don't suffer from Anxiety / Depression / Lack of sleep and all the other things that were mentioned on this forum and even if there are any negative effects from PMO in my life then they are really minor. My only "goal" right now is to get myself into a relationship which Nofap doesn't really help me with
I'm pretty much the same, I feel perfectly fine. I just want to see if I feel 'better' and can get rid of these urges that pain me.
RELAPSED on day 27. But tomorrow is a new day I'll update my daily counter but I'm leaving this forum for a while.. cya
Be aware that there is probably a girl who is wondering why the hell you do not notice her. Guys who fap, let's face it, we can get very obsessed about things/people. Sometimes we're so concerned about ourselves and our own needs we fail to notice other things. So....No fapping. Take control. The world will begin to shift when you demonstrate more personal strength.
It sounds like you have experienced the flatline. This is when your sex drive disappears and your penis can shrivel and get kind of unfeeling i.e. "my penis became to be a useless piece of meat." But these changes are temporary. The solution is to be patient and trust the process. There is no need to go back to masturbation or to leave NoFap. Stay with us Dekk bro.
Hi mate. Yes, it is easily done. Often guys think there is something wrong with their penis and "test" it. It may seem like a good idea at the time, but it is just your addiction rationalizing that it is OK, even beneficial, to bust a nut or even watch porn! I encourage you to keep your self discipline. It is not easy, but it is very rewarding. Good luck my brother.
It was silly anyway, didn't have any urges was just worried. Really should have looked it up on the internet. Thank you and good luck to you!
You are lucky that you have not fallen deep enough to have the SERIOUS issues like some of us. If you are a PMO addict you will end up fapping till you do have serious issues and PIED . I wish I found this site many years ago when I thought exactly the same as you.