We all have a lot of growing to do, and that will be true until the day we die. However, you should do your best while you are still alive, so that when the day comes, you can look back and say, "I'm proud I did those things. I'm proud that I left that lifestyle behind me, and I'm proud of the person it made me." And you should be proud in the moment too, as I am. I have a 21 day streak, now THAT's something. Don't live with too much regret. Look forward at the person you will become. And if you like that person, you can start becoming him/her right now. Let's finish what we started when we came here.
What kind of paradigm needs to be smashed there? Edit: I don't think paradigm is the right word. For some reason Stephen Covey seems to have instilled paradigm in my mind so I thought to use it like that but I don't think it's correct.
Great job dude, way to go! Any kind of sperm will do! Preferably your own! That's the spirit man! Have you tried making a major change? Have you been honest with yourself? I know how you feel but there's a side to life you're not seeing.
i feel this way too. this fucking addiction is about as funny as death itself for long time i engaged in it, not knowing how life and death serious it truly is when the time comes, to stop, even if it's life and death, you can't stop, you realize you got trapped by something so insidious
But you have to be honest with yourself and realize that you can stop. It might be the hardest thing ever, but it's definitely possible.
Just because you've failed doesn't mean that you yourself are a failure. Try setting a single goal in your life for the next week, and try to meet it. Make it something small.
yes! and maybe 90% now I am proud thanks to nofap. Since I do nofap I am more productive, and much more selfcontrol. Absolutely more. For my job is very important have it. Never I had it, but now i feel can control all the things in my life.
You're both a little too young for this kind of thinking. Get your shit together or you might actually end up like me.