that's what i called strategies. the strategies that only made by you and u found it by your experience tend to have a better succesfull precentage than strategies u copy from other people. keep up the good work bro
That sounds so so very tough. Thinking of you. We're all here if you wanna talk, and the benefit of a global website: there's always somebody awake. What's the Recovery Nation workshop? I also find the bible reading and prayer very helpful. Am praying for you. Seriously. God knows what you need, and will get you through, although I can hardly imagine what it feels like right now. Yay! Congrats
I am working on improving human drawings at the moment. I'm going with the traditional, I usually draw objects on a perspective. But now I'm trying to grow and hopefully I'll be able to draw on my tablet. I'm just scared cause I haven't been using it for a while, I forgot how to use the software. Writing this here made me realize how I'm obsessing over a small thing just now. Yeah I forgot the software but there are hundreds of tutorials out there. My god, we all have those excuses am I right? Talking this through by myself just made it easier thank you for this @hollyman have a good day
i start my habit to do a doodle thing's and try to at least draw one object a day, i used to draw before i go to sleep its a bad draw tbh and im learning to draw from the really basic thing's. sometime i think that maybe even some junior high school student had a better draw than me. i buy some cheap pen tablet from huion (cant afford to get the wacom tho lol) but i just have this kinda dream that i wana try, and it need drawing skill's. and i believe result happen over time not over night have a good day sister
Thanks for your sincere support. This is by far the worst pain I have ever felt in my life but I am beginning to stabilize emotionally. Check out http://www.recoverynation.com/recovery/recovery_workshop_contents.php Recovery nation provides a free 90 to 180-day workshop that provides a firm foundation on how to live an addiction-free life. They use the example of climbing Mount Everest. Do you think it is possible to climb it right now without any training and orientation? Well, the probability that one will die while climbing is quite high. The same with porn and masturbation. Without a firm foundation and training, repeated failure will be the rule. Their premise is that to become addiction-free one must move from an addiction based identity to value-based identity. They deal with all manner of sexual addictions. For me, my focus is on porn and masturbation. Feel free to scan through the whole website. It is not for everyone and is quite rigorous. I am retaking the workshop because it helped me previously and also because I never really absorbed the material and applied it in my life.
Yes that is 100% true. You have to personalize your journey. There is no one size fits all strategy. I am learning from others like you of course and adding it to my arsenal in this war. In the end, I believe we will be completely victorious.
Day 5 I have begun smiling again. My emotional rollercoaster seems to have waned and for the first time, I slept without pills. I think staying away from PMO was a great help because my energy levels have increased greatly. My father and I have drawn so much closer together during this tough time where initially we almost had a none existent relationship.
This is nice! In human drawing, what part you think is the most difficult and why? And what about you @hollyman ? Personally, the torso and the hands are what so difficult to make them proportionate to all the other parts. What helped me a lot is Pinterest, but be careful because sometimes certain drawing are triggers. Be careful if you wander... Do you have any drawings that you could share? I'm intrigued!
oh hey u passed the mini target 6 day's isnt it ? congrats for it. haha i even cant draw straight line yet lol , but its a process tho
Cheers, I've just checked it out. Looks very thorough indeed! I've never heard of "Love addiction", that was interesting to read about. I'll continue to look into this website in the coming days. Day 8 @Wolfyoufeed - can you please add me to the roster? I plan on gettin' me some fightin' gear!
Day 6 6-day mini-target achieved! Next Target is 10 days! Another good day for me. My neighbours and I got to do some weight lifting within the surroundings of our apartments. It was really awesome and it has helped keep my spirits high. I hope I can keep up with this routine.