It all started when I was 6 when I, out ofnof tried to kiss the feet of some anime character. And it kept going. My foot fetish kept on increasing on and on. Then I found porn. Which slowly modified my foot fetish into Humiliation fetish where the girl humiliates the guy and laughs at him. And then came Submission. GOD LEVEL. At this point the guy in porn submits himself to her and take everything she gives her. Like scat cuckolding and all that. But considering that my fetish was not porn induced, I know I can't do anything about my foot fetish. But I want to enjoy vanilla stuff too. Like boobs ass waist. I want to get turned on by them too. So I decided to start NoFap. And turned out I have relapsed about 12 times so far. Apart from that. I saw no progress in my attraction towards other body parts of a woman. All I figured out was the things that were just porn-induced like gagging cuckolding sissy and all that. Although when I imagine myself having sex, it excites me but not sexually. Amd porn doesn't even give me that excitement. So now it feels like I am just a ASEXUAL guy with a foot fetish
I don't understand what you mean about being asexual but the foot fetish and the other fetishes should be curable with serotonin neurotransmission. Please send me a PM.
By Asexual I mean, If you remove the foot fetish part, I'm not sexually interested in either males or females at all. I tried binge watching normal porn and nudes, but Nothing. And I don't want to get rid of my foot fetish. I just want to be like every other too.
i know what are you saying bro, i was the same way, two years ago i couldn't get excited by asses or breasts, vanilla sex in general, i realized that this was not normal, since only foot fetish videos excited me, i decided to try vanilla porn for a few months, soon after that and countless relapses , I started to like vanilla sex very much, in my view, because of what happened in your childhood you ended up atrophying neural pathways that reward vanilla sex and reinforcing neural pathways of foot fetish, what you need to do is abstain from foot fetish and start rewarding with vanilla sex by watching vanilla porn, once you start like vanilla, you can go to nofap hardmode to end up decreasing the delta fosb and sensitization with foot fetish. look this video:
The reason I recommend you go to vanilla porn first is because of the awareness of the brain cells that rewards foot fetish, as you never reinforced normal sexual behavior with normal porn, I would recommend you masturbate watching vanilla porn until you like it (at the moment when you start to feel naturally attracted to it), when you get to that point, you are ready for the next step which would be abstaining, basically on hardmode for a few months, after that you can masturbate weekly, but without fantasizing feet or any thing related to that, the more you ignore these weaker desires they become, once you start liking vanilla porn, the hardmode will get a lot easier, believe me it works very well. Obviously in all these steps, you should stop watching any kind of foot fetish pornography, and stop fantasizing foot fetish, if those thoughts come, cut them off quickly, your goal here is to stop reinforcing this neural pathway, which rewards foot fetish then, no fantasy and pornography, even femdom text or any artificially foot fetish stimulating shit has to be avoided.
Yeah that's what I was planning about. If you can have porn-induced foot fetish, why not porn-induced boobs or ass fetish. Right now what I am upto is doing hard mode NoFap and see if even a single percent of me is attracted to vanilla stuff. I have completely abstained from foot porn and try my best to not fantasize about that. But here are some problems I am facing :- 1. I don't know if that has anything to do with rewiring my neural pathways, but when I watch vanilla porn, I feel extremely sleepy. I watch other boring stuff too, but never felt so drowsy. 2. I am having lots of wet dreams. Actually this is my first time too ever when I had wet dreams. But now I have one every 4-5 days and whenever I have them, I dream about foot only. 3. I'm not getting boners the whole day as if my penis is dead. But when I make my penis hard while watching vanilla porn, it stays hard for as long as I watch porn. 4. When I watch porn, I don't know what people really get arroused by. cleavage?any particular position? moaning sound? Pressing? 5.Same goes for fantasizing, I dont know what to fantasize about because I never watched vanilla porn. So I end up fantasizing about feet only.
I'm in same situation bro, I don't feel any attraction for others body's parts, but I got rid at masturbation, videos with feet and fantasiez for a period. Now, I don't masturbate of a few months but old thoughts still rise in my brain. I abstaining, isn't hard, but if I would masturbate, I'll doing with thoughts at feet.
I recommend you follow this steps: https://medium.com/@alphaspath/how-...orn-3-steps-to-complete-recovery-4312df96fdab
0. If your foot fetish stems from your pre-porn time then it is probably not porn-induced. But resides deeper in your psyche. 1. Don't watch vanilla porn. Or femdom porn. 2. You cannot do anything about wet dreams. It does not matter that they are about feet. 3. It is completely fine not to pop random boners. And says nothing about healthy sexuality. 4. The arousal is basically an instinct. You have this instinct too because you are an animal. 5. Don't fantasize. You can actually masturbate without fantasy if you abstained long enough from PMO / FMO. And lastly : we have deep emotional issues that we bury with porn / fetishes. You must resolve these emotional issues then the fetishes will fade away. It is not a fight or a reconditioning training.
My situation is same buddy,my whole life i m attracted to femdom and foot fetish,nothing else.Never in my life,i was never attracted or arousal by normal sex or boobs or ass.But week ago i tried something,I DON'T say anyone should do this,i do by myself with my approval.I watched vanilla porn,and i got erection,but no arousal and no dopamine rush,i watched it maybe for 10 minutes.For first time in my life i was attracted to normal body parts.After 21 month of nofap hardmode,there is always some hope buddy.I would still call myself asexual(because i don't have desire for sex,expect femdom and foot fetish).
You did 21 months hardmode continously? Did you try to have sex? Do you get hard from touch alone? Did you rule out physical diseases?
I didn't make streak of 21 month,i started nofap in september 2018,i had something like 10-15 relapses since beggining.No i didn't try to have sex,because i m still insecure about this. You mean when i just touch myself?If that,then yes,very easily,sometimes i just get hard when i talk with girls. Last one about physical diseases i don't understand
That sounds great. Congratiulations to this achievement! I mean touching without fantasy. If you get hard and stay hard easily from touch alone without fantasy, you should be ready to have sex.
First of all I'm sorry for late reply (The mods banned me for 4 day. Don't know why they are so obsessed with the B word) Coming to your erection. I would love to know behind the scenes. The discipline you brought in your life. Change in self-esteem. Change in fetish thoughts over time. Any real life sexual experiences. Personally I think I cannot get erections from vanilla porn unless I take out initiatives to increase my self-esteem. Whenever I still a hot girl I feel insecure inside. I sub-subconsciously put her on a pedestal in blink if an eye. I need to stop doing that and see them like some objects to use and then don't give a fuc* about her (I know it sounds bad but there are no better alternatives right now) One more reason why I consider my self-esteem to be low is because I have a tremor problem. My hands keep shaking 24/7. Although it's slight shake but it's noticable. My mentor told me that he got rid of his tremor problem when he achieved different things like getting a job, getting that perfect body, drinking for first time. That's my ideology too for increasing self-esteem . ACHIEVE SOMETHING AND PROVE YOURSELF YOUR WORTH.
I still don't have any sexual experience.When i see hot girl,or girl i like i feel insecure too,like i m not good enough,like i have in mind that she can find much better. My hands are shaking too. Only one thing i think different,i m confident,at job,at private life,only when it comes to girls i m insecure. I have 19 years old,i alone paid and get driving licence,i alone find a job and work,i even work private.And still i m insecure when i m with girls,for me it maybe will never change.
Really, you have this tremor problem too??? Because then I don't need to get it diagnosed and I guess my mentor was right then. And for the insecure part, I would suggest you too start using the practicee that I use ( seeing them like objects) We have to boost our self-esteem no matter what it takes.
Since i started nofap,my tremor got better,but it is still here.It is just what we are. I know what you mean by seeing girl or woman like object,if that is way to help me,then i will.
How are you feeling witht his NoFap? do you think it is working for you? or is it still popping up in your mind? I have started nofap on day 13 and can feel very low energy..
Yeah even my tremor got better. But whenever my tremor starts to become visible I just lift my head and say to myself LETS FACE IT The main goal for us is to see girls as submissive to us. So let's plan our path with the objective in mind
