Hello all! I am on 92nd day and I am facing with some negative thoughts. These thoughts are about genders and I feel sorry for all women all the time. Thoughts like 'God is unfair', 'Why It created genders so unequal, one with full of advantages and the other with weakness but more obligations' come to my mind frequently and I feel very depressed because I can't overcome these thoughts. Please share your opinions whether you are male or female, maybe it relieves my condition. (Please, without any verses of any religious books. I need your personal opinions. I am not atheist, I believe in God but not religions.)
Congratulations! you are now starting a process of cleaning your mind and thought in addition to getting clean from addictions. There is nothing wrong with the 2 sexes, people have been brainwashed and indoctrinated about this inequality by the same people who own the porn industry, media, banks, politicians, etc... and most importantly the people behind the Frankfurt School of Marxism, the very same group people! The purpose of this propaganda is to destroy the family and make the 2 sexes fight instead of cooperate. And I have to commend its planners. While they pursue evil goals. Their efforts and results can only be admired. Society have been fragmented, made weak, docile, obedient and ripe for slavery just like what they wanted it to be.
Wtfff!?!?! Both genders have their strong points and weak points, has a man im happy and Thank God i was born a man , other else i wouldnt be so strong
God we are doomed.... Advantages? Obligations? what? Ok ok, I'll try and be constructive, I think you got some very very bad assumptions in what regards to the difference between sexes. As @PanteriMauzer said both have weak and strong points, and in terms of obligations and advantages I would even argue women may have the upper hand in today's social climate. Feeling sorry? Lmao
Thank you for your praise, I am trying. But even if I ignore all the cultural/religious beliefs, why I can't believe women's life can be just as perfect as men's? I think my brain is hardwired to think that women are inferior to us men for years, and I think it caused by our sexist culture (I am from Uzbekistan). What do you think?
Perhaps you need to think of the differences between men and women, and even the different species as mere differences and not as superior or inferior. Is a lion superior to a dolphin? They are simply completely different living experiences. I just used a far out example to try to move you away from your bolshevik indoctrination. (I use bolshevik because I cannot name your real enemies, the ones who got you addicted to porn in the first place, because they are too powerful, but you can research who they were and who controlled the bolsheviks!) And yes, men are not superior to women, and in a western society, men for the most part have become victimized and completely abused by women, but your bolshevik media won't tell you that. You are undergoing a process of brainwashing. Because you live in Uzbekistan, western bolshevik idea still have not reached you completely, but it seems you are in the process of it, first they will convince you how women are oppressed and need to be "liberated". This liberation process is turning mothers who live happy lives into miserable lonely creatures, careers will never satisfy a women the same way it does for a man, women are different and care for different things. If you live in a western society you will see things differently. I cannot undo the brainwashing you have gone through in a single post, it took many years for the media to put you where you are now. But I can tell you this, villagers in Uzbekistan are living much happier lives than westerners. Don't fall for the bolshevik propaganda.
I am also happy for being a man. But what about women? Ok, they are maybe also happy being a woman but it is because they can't even imagine how it feels like to be a man.
I saw in myself. I am content with my being. Men don't have burdens like being pregnant, giving a birth, breasrfeeding. I don't know whether they are burden or not though. Also I love my body. And I like masculine feelings towards girls, it is awesome. I am not sure whether girls also have that kind of feelings towards us. It might be ridiculous but it has been one of my strong beliefs for many years (that belief a female don't have any feeling towards a male).
What will you say about men who risk their lives to do works like building skyscrapers, bridges, repairing live wires, and many more dangerous works are done by men only. Broaden up your perspective. You can say , well there are men who don't need to do these dangerous acts and I will say that there are females out there who are not opressed.
My mother and my sisters love me immensely. Why should I feel bad when a random woman who doesn't even knows me has no feelings for me.
You are just having a bit of melancholic mood, need to use your reasoning to understand your feelings. Feelings make no sense, or logic.
I think you are right. Now I am realising how stupid things I said. I meant sexual feelings. I wondered if they also have that feelings towards men (at least towards one man and he shouldn't necessarily be me). But it was a stupid question now I realise. I tried to put myself in a female position that was impossible for me to do. I was like 'If I don't feel something I doubt it really exist.' I can never feel woman's sexual feelings and don't even want to. But it deosn't mean they don't have anything.
Yeah I know it. But social media displays it in a different way. As if they don't actually care but only wants to be cared. Do you think two sexualities are so different? Personally I hate that idea.
Lol! Pregnancy, birth and breastfeeding are the most amazing experience a woman can have that a man can never have! Feeling a life grow inside you, the little kicks, jumps, rolls. Absolutely one of the best experiences of my life that nothing can duplicate. I’m amazed that you think this is a burden?
You sure is that amazing? I would like to see you having labour for 10hrs and an episiotomy(cutting your vagina to make it more wide to make delivery easier) and experiencing having a 12 pounds baby going through your reproductive organs. It most be fantastic.
I mean, I know is hard to relate to it, but it is, for most women at least, not giving birth per se, with all you just mentioned, and even then is argueable that is a painful, annoying, but still somewhat beautiful on it's own way experience, but the whole being pregnant. Is something men cannot normally relate to, as we cannot get pregnant and have such experience, unless you are schwarzenegger of course.
Of course, Schwarzenegger I forgot about that. The debate is reopened. As one of my gynecologist teachers said, the most relatable a men can be about pregnancy is to have a giant tumor in your belly. Just like a baby, it will suck all your energy away. I don't see the beauty at all in pregnancy is a lot of suffering I've seen hundreds of pregnant women and done many deliveries. But once again I'm not a girl so what do I know.
