Depression about gender

I’m female, and yea I had my children naturally, no drugs. So I’m sure for me it was amazing! Very few women have 12 pound babies.

 

And you see, before I got pregnant I too looked at pregnancy this way. It’s altogether completely different, it was really amazing

 

I thought you were a men talking how a woman feel about pregnancy, so in that case never mind. Forget what I said.

I just leave the thread
Bye

 

lol, no problems. I’m just giving a different perspective from someone who actually has experienced it

 

So is training like a beast in the gym, or having a physical fight, things most women cannot relate to in the same way, is a lot of suffering, but we surely enjoy it.

Cannot you really see the beauty on being the carrying vessel of a new life?
I don't ask you to consider if you would be ok being one, just consider the beauty of having the power of from two single cells, create a complete lifeform....

Is a pretty badass power if you ask me, I would not do it even if I could, too tiresome hahaha but is a badass power nonetheless. And birth being the moment in wich that life truly becomes it's own, as it has been an inseparable part of you until that point, both tied together, like a sculptor with his hands tied into the twirling ceramic shaping it until he releases his hands from it and witness the creation?

I mean, anyone can say, what do I know, but that's how I see it.

 

No, man. Maybe because I have spent many nights without sleep taking care of many pregnant women at the hospital. And trying to do deliveries at 8 women at a time by myself.

I guess that can take the charm away haha

 

I'm starting to see that my boy @SickSicko is not just a romantic but also has a heart. You have so many layers.

 

I'm like an onion

 

Ahhh, so you only witness the painful part? The part that’s usually less than one day of the entire process. Makes sense. I did not enjoy my 4 months of morning sickness with my second child. I will give you that! But when you feel the child move inside you is so incredible and when the baby recognize you the moment they lay it on your chest,, head follows the sound of your voice, soft lips searching for mom. It really is one of my greatest moments and biggest blessings followed only by raising them into incredible adults! Obviously there is pain involved in the birth, but if it were so bad no woman would ever have more than one!

 

Inferior/superior, better/worse, are concepts in our minds. They are not objective traits.

 

I’ve always been checking out this cool car I want to buy for years. I don’t know if this if a problem but I can’t stop looking at the pictures and checking the price for years now but I don’t even have the money yet and ive never saved towards it. What should I do?

 

I mean, you need to save that money

 

Not really. Males are generally stronger than females, that's an objective fact. Same thing with height and speed. But everyone deserves equal respect, as long as they are a good person.

 

I was talking about value judgements.

Do you realize when you're mischaracterizing my words, or do you do it by mistake?

 

Nowhere in your post did you mention "value judgements", what I quoted is exactly what you had written, nothing removed, nothing added. You said "Inferior/superior, better/worse, are concepts in our minds. They are not objective traits." Which is simply an incorrect statement. Superiority is not a concept in our mind, it can be backed up with science. If we have 2 cars, one goes 200 km/h and the other goes 100 km/h then the first car is objective superior in speed, there is no "concept in our mind" this is just an objective fact. Same thing here, it is an objective fact that men are superior in strength, speed and height in comparison to women. This does not mean they deserve less respect, but to say men and women are equal, or to say one of them cannot have superiority over the other, is objectively incorrect no matter how much you don't want it to be true.