Yeah, oneitis gives an illusion that somehow this particular girl is special and unique in some way, where in reality she’s nothing special.
Correct, its her looks and her caring and attracted behaviour before.. mind has trouble letting go. I once wrote it down what my future wife would look like when i was a huge fan of goal setting. Well she is pretty close to it physically but not so sure about personality..
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Thanks man! I will look it up. When in middle of covid and my flatlines it is easy to feel lonely and get attached when opportunity arises. But now getting to feel a lot more confident and i don't need anyone to make me feel happy. I am already doing my projects and totally exited about it, never had the will and energy to do them before.
Many women do this. They flirt with you and then out of nothing they feel that it's time to tell you about their bf, usually in a side-sentence. I guess they want to signal that you have to be serious about her so she can safely leave her bf for you. This is a red flag because (1) it's too much pressure in the beginning of a relationship and (2) she will one day change you for another guy. Just recently I experienced this so I know it's heartbreaking.
She has a boyfriend, leave her alone. Also the next time you meet a girl (THAT IS SINGLE), don't wait around so much to make a move. You said you were in her appartment and you respect her for not trying anything or something like that. Bro of course she's not gonna try anything she's a girl, that's your job. If she cheats on her bf with you, she'll cheat on you with another dude.