I’m going to describe the situation fully so possibly trigging. So today after I woke up at 6 I fell back asleep on my side. Probably around 9 ish (that’s when I started to wake up) I had a dream where I was bouncing on an exercise ball & imaging I’m having sex as a woman. During the dream I was half asleep . I could feel my penis getting erect & something moving up & down (almost like masturbating minus using the hand). I was hitting the climax point in the dream and reality. But right before I orgasmed I woke up. I let my penis calm itself down because I figured if I even moved I would orgasm. As much as I wanted to finish it off I didn’t. But I’ve noticed a common theme with my most recent wet dreams, I’m always on my side & I always hump (I’m pretty sure). I’m also usually half asleep &/or about to wake up so I can feel my penis, yet I can’t control my body or open my eyes. Anyone have advice on how I can counter not doing & have more natural wet dreams?
And yes, I know that being in the woman’s perspective/ the receiver of sex is HOCD like symptoms. I had a relapse about 10 days ago. I started having craving for giving, receiving anal and femboys. But the fog is starting to clear once more. I was on a craving for answers about anal via Quora & I started to see a theme with the answers. Calling your anus a “pussy”, wanting to be “dominated” or “breed”, and being EXTREMELY descriptive. That’s bullshit. My guys, the only thing I want is to dominate my goal. And trying to be feminine is only going to hold me back.
HAHA n1, I always sleep on my back and still have wet dreams...Im humping my blanket in my sleep and it seems you can ejaculate by your nice warm blanket. I dont like wet dreams either cuz I always feel weird afterwards. However I think we should worry too much about this right?
Yea I always tell people on this site that wet dreams aren't a relapse since you can't control them. At least that is how I see them
I too can't sleep on my back. Dunno what it's worth, but I've read that sleeping on your belly is something comforting, if you're insecure. That makes a lot of sense for me anyway. Same for fantasizing yourself as the woman/sub: it's obviously a way to cope with some insecurity.
Wouldn't we be more exposed on our stomachs? Like all our defensives are in the front not the back. If you wake up in the night and have to fight it would be a lot easier coming from laying on you back than your stomach or side.
I see that some of you guys sleep on your belly. It is actually bad for your health. https://www.healthline.com/health/is-it-bad-to-sleep-on-your-stomach#pregnant-women
Well first it's obvious that the neck suffers. Usually I try to shift to a more sideways position using a pillow as support, this way my neck is less twisted.
I tend to favor sleeping on my side when I'm in a "comfy" mood when I go to bed. I just kinda want to wrap myself up in my blankets, hug my pillows and fall asleep. However, if I'm wasted like after a brutal workout, and I just fall on the bed on my back spread-eagle, I will go out like a light. As for nightfall, that doesn't happen to me very often. But, yeah, when it does I'm usually on my side. And I don't like how it feels. I am so not into wet dreams. It doesn't feel good and then I have to get up in the middle of the night and clean up. Lose - lose. But morning wood, I do like that, it just feels good.