I have had a perfectly reasonable exchange with Kailey about this. But you are overreacting. There is no need for this.
I struggle with this too and I use the 3 second rule but I try to look at their upper body instead bc the rest is a big trigger for me.
No, I don't believe I have. But I regret that you feel that "you all attacked me!" Sometimes, I have felt like that. But on reflection, I have come to realise that I wasn't in a good place when the comments were made and this affected how I 'heard' them. That will likely make little or no sense to you now, but I hope you will see it when you reconsider it later.
@Sun Bro Trying too hard to sound smart? Is this what people who cannot provide rebuttals for actual arguments say these days?
I can be how upset you want me to but I won't pretend that I lose the property of words during that period. Being upset does not grant anyone anything.
I apologise for derailing your thread @Forte B. I hope later in the day I can message you about some practical ways to significantly reduce and manage your ogling habit, that I have found useful for negating fantasies. Sorry, I'm just not in the right head space to post just now.
Where did you get this impression from? This is was not a matter of which ice-cream is better and me throwing a tantrum that he doesn't agree that the blackberries one is the best... If you have an argument with your wife and she insults you I can come to you and say: come on bro do you expect her to be the same as you? How would you like that?
I do not understand what you are talking about. In any case, we are distracting from the purpose of this thread. Let's just leave it, OK?